When I was young I was this way, but i'd get all panicky when a girl would do the unimaginable and hit on me.
Now at 24 I do not expect girls to make the first move and always do it myself, but I can greatly appreciate a girl that is daring, I think it's impressive to have the ability to break free from gender roles and I'd be very flattered if a girl happened to hit on me, infact even if the girl doesn't seem too attractive to me at first glance, it'll definitely up her score.
As for your last question- I think it depends on many other factors, I personally am introverted and I'd need a person who understands that I need my time alone sometimes and that often I would prefer cuddling in bed all day than going out, and would not pressure me to go out and meet people all the time, but the traits of being energetic, ambitious and adventurous on their own sound quite appealing.
Extroversion also often makes for being a good conversationalist, and being more of a listener myself I like not being forced to think about how to progress a conversation, I find it a real chore sometimes and I appreciate it when the other person takes the more active part there too.
Another thing you have going for you is that I like both mangos and sloths, so you get the male INFP seal of approval:
Now at 24 I do not expect girls to make the first move and always do it myself, but I can greatly appreciate a girl that is daring, I think it's impressive to have the ability to break free from gender roles and I'd be very flattered if a girl happened to hit on me, infact even if the girl doesn't seem too attractive to me at first glance, it'll definitely up her score.
As for your last question- I think it depends on many other factors, I personally am introverted and I'd need a person who understands that I need my time alone sometimes and that often I would prefer cuddling in bed all day than going out, and would not pressure me to go out and meet people all the time, but the traits of being energetic, ambitious and adventurous on their own sound quite appealing.
Extroversion also often makes for being a good conversationalist, and being more of a listener myself I like not being forced to think about how to progress a conversation, I find it a real chore sometimes and I appreciate it when the other person takes the more active part there too.
Another thing you have going for you is that I like both mangos and sloths, so you get the male INFP seal of approval:
