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This is my first post. Hello everybody. I'm really wondering what types of women the other 4w5 men here usually end up dating. No, I'm not cruising the internet looking for someone to date, just need to know what kind of women would find 4w5s interesting romantically. You see, I'm 50 and have never had much luck dating. I'm so introverted that my personality never seems to "click" with a girl. Women who don't know me say I'm too quiet. So what's the deal with male 4w5s...are we destined to never find anyone or is there really someone out there?

Is there anyone out there?
 

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Find a really introverted person with at least a good function in common? Yeah that's hard to do when you're introverted yourself...
Welcome to the forum! Sorry I don't know much about enneagrams ^_^;; Good luck! :kitteh:
 

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Thanks for the tip! I do enjoy the company of other introverts. Highly extroverted women tend to put me off. Maybe a happy medium, like a 2w1.
 

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Welcome, @PitbullBob1! My recommendation is to find someone who you get along with who shares your values and goals. Once the relationship is established, you can learn her type and then use that to better understand what her motivations are.
 

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Thanks for your help, Stephen. Maybe I shouldn't think of the type first, but see if we just get along and share similarities.
 

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Hallo. It's nice to have an older poster join; plenty of teens and 20's here. Back when I joined, most of the people were 20-somethings, but now it's all gone teenage. I'm just 19 myself. Anyway, have you tried looking at European Dream Connections? It could be a cultural thing if you're looking for a wife instead of a girlfriend. I'm an INTP (extreme emphasis on the "I") and I found Eastern European women to be... how do I say it?- more approachable or at least more willing to let you have a shot. Thank god for foreign exchange programs :) Anyway, welcome to forum!
European Dream Connections
 

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Thank you, Mutatio. Eastern European women may be the thing; I sure haven't had any luck here in the States. I'm an extreme introvert, too.... I'll give your link a try right away.
 

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I looked at the site, and it does seem like fun. One 49 year-old guy got himself a 23 year-old cutie. I wish he were me! LOL.
 

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Welcome to the forum :D
 
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uh I have no idea. I've always found that it's more about the person's life experiences than their personality types. Still so much deviation even within the categories.
 
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You may be right. The fact that I'm introverted (4w5, INFP) and tried to date extraverts didn't always work out for me. I'm an artist, and I get along with most other artists regardless of type. I'm thinking I should only date artists...so maybe life experiences is the key. Thanks for the suggestion.
 
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