Hi, I'm new here
... and I just wanted to say hi!
I've tested INFJ for a very long time, and read about INFJs and thought that it sounded like me. I was on this forum, just searching around and before I got a profile, and decided that people here was nice. I've read many posts here before becoming a member. I created an account to ask if someone could help me figure out if I was INFP or INFJ, and someone sent me a test, which I took and I tested ENFP
I read about ENFPs, and it sounds SO much more like me I just assumed I was an introvert because I like to be alone from time to time and get tired f people really easily, but now I've read about it, and I'm not introverted at all, just a bit shy and private.
I hope no one minds that I'm here!
And I would love to get some advice, like what to and not to do
Thanks
I've tested INFJ for a very long time, and read about INFJs and thought that it sounded like me. I was on this forum, just searching around and before I got a profile, and decided that people here was nice. I've read many posts here before becoming a member. I created an account to ask if someone could help me figure out if I was INFP or INFJ, and someone sent me a test, which I took and I tested ENFP
I read about ENFPs, and it sounds SO much more like me I just assumed I was an introvert because I like to be alone from time to time and get tired f people really easily, but now I've read about it, and I'm not introverted at all, just a bit shy and private. I hope no one minds that I'm here! And I would love to get some advice, like what to and not to do
Thanks
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Hi! and thank you I was afraid I wouldn't be welcome here
I was afraid I wouldn't be welcome here Hey Luka!
I am a slight extravert and I used to even fool myself into thinking I was an intravert. Like you, I'm generally more shy and private (at first anyways). Once I've gauged my audience though, look out. I have to determine how much of me someone is going to be able to handle before I begin to go into extraversion mode.
Taking stock of your audience is a very ENFP thing. I know I can converse just fine with the 'Old Ironsides' librarian lady as well as the I can with the neighbor lady who sells 'special' toys. The tone of those conversations are a slight bit different...
I am a slight extravert and I used to even fool myself into thinking I was an intravert. Like you, I'm generally more shy and private (at first anyways). Once I've gauged my audience though, look out. I have to determine how much of me someone is going to be able to handle before I begin to go into extraversion mode.
Taking stock of your audience is a very ENFP thing. I know I can converse just fine with the 'Old Ironsides' librarian lady as well as the I can with the neighbor lady who sells 'special' toys. The tone of those conversations are a slight bit different...
I think that if you choose to enter an area of ENFPs, I think you should be more afraid of being smothered to death by friendliness than not being welcomed. We're the exact opposite of rejecting new friends and playmates:tongue:
I've been thinking the same, totally appropriate, maybe:crazy:
if i was a cartoon i'd tap that..
i've got to that stage of tiredness where i'm not sure if that's appropriate or not..
Thank you all I see myself as a friendly person but I wasn't sure if I could just join, like that. Many places it's hard to be the new one! but you all seem very friendly I hope you don't mind I start posting some responses here and there, but I'm now pretty sure you wont
I'm feeling very happy because so many people welcomed me here! I'm getting dizzy of happiness thank you all
I see myself as a friendly person but I wasn't sure if I could just join, like that. Many places it's hard to be the new one! but you all seem very friendly I hope you don't mind I start posting some responses here and there, but I'm now pretty sure you wont I'm feeling very happy because so many people welcomed me here! I'm getting dizzy of happiness
thank you all ENFPs probably love new friends more than old ones half the time.:crazy:
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