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Hi, I'm new here

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... and I just wanted to say hi!

I've tested INFJ for a very long time, and read about INFJs and thought that it sounded like me. I was on this forum, just searching around and before I got a profile, and decided that people here was nice. I've read many posts here before becoming a member. I created an account to ask if someone could help me figure out if I was INFP or INFJ, and someone sent me a test, which I took and I tested ENFP :) I read about ENFPs, and it sounds SO much more like me :) I just assumed I was an introvert because I like to be alone from time to time and get tired f people really easily, but now I've read about it, and I'm not introverted at all, just a bit shy and private.

:D I hope no one minds that I'm here!

And I would love to get some advice, like what to and not to do :D

Thanks :D
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Welcome to the forums Luca! Yes the definition for extroversion has all kinds of connotations! So glad to have you on the forums!
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Hi! and thank you :D I was afraid I wouldn't be welcome here :D
What-Why??:shocked:

We are so happy that we have new friend:)!!
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get out.



just kidding.. hi :happy:
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Hello and welcome...
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Hey Luka!

I am a slight extravert and I used to even fool myself into thinking I was an intravert. Like you, I'm generally more shy and private (at first anyways). Once I've gauged my audience though, look out. I have to determine how much of me someone is going to be able to handle before I begin to go into extraversion mode.

Taking stock of your audience is a very ENFP thing. I know I can converse just fine with the 'Old Ironsides' librarian lady as well as the I can with the neighbor lady who sells 'special' toys. The tone of those conversations are a slight bit different...
I think that if you choose to enter an area of ENFPs, I think you should be more afraid of being smothered to death by friendliness than not being welcomed. We're the exact opposite of rejecting new friends and playmates:tongue:
Welcome to the forum. You seem nice, are you sure you don't wanna be an INFJ?
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Hihi my sister is INFJ and she's shrewy:pP-But I love my sis-And today we'v got new sailoor moon stickers-what make us so happy:D
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if i was a cartoon i'd tap that..

i've got to that stage of tiredness where i'm not sure if that's appropriate or not..:proud:
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I've been thinking the same, totally appropriate, maybe:crazy:
if i was a cartoon i'd tap that..

i've got to that stage of tiredness where i'm not sure if that's appropriate or not..:proud:
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Yeah I can relate a bit. I initally thougth I was an INFP because I'm a lot more shy than what I envisioned true extroversion to be, but nope, I've discovered I'm an ENFP and have been sure of it ever since. =D Welcome!
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Thank you all :D I see myself as a friendly person but I wasn't sure if I could just join, like that. Many places it's hard to be the new one! but you all seem very friendly :D I hope you don't mind I start posting some responses here and there, but I'm now pretty sure you wont :)

I'm feeling very happy because so many people welcomed me here! I'm getting dizzy of happiness :D thank you all :D
ENFPs probably love new friends more than old ones half the time.:crazy:
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