Aunt and uncle are a married. They consist of your type.
Hope in ESTJs and me
What I want is to figure out if I can possibly have a good interaction with you guys and maybe figure out what we can appreciate about each other. Ive heard we can accomplish a lot together. I've posted in your forum before, and I hope to make a fresh try. First off, do you feel like you can appreciate an ENFP? (Or any NF really). If so, what do you like about us?
I can start by telling you that I appreciate and feel that we share a bright cheery attitude and a strong energy to make an impact.
I can start by telling you that I appreciate and feel that we share a bright cheery attitude and a strong energy to make an impact.
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SJs can appreciate NFs, at least for my experience I get the most appreciation from SJs. At least in a way that I understand and feels real.
SJs can appreciate Ne, if they have Ne inf or Ne tert they appreciate someone whose good with Ne.
One of my good friends is an ESTJ and I'm an INFP and our friendships is very easy, I'm already impressed with his direct approach to the world and usually he is very shocked by my insights.
Also they say sensors don't like to talk about deep things, not always true, some may be less confident in their ability to do so, but I know 3 ESTJs and deep conversations intrigue all 3 of them, I guess Ne tert helps them relax around someone who has Ne dom or Ne aux. ESPECIALLY older ESTJs, they like to relax by doing Ne things and exploring Ne.
When I say Ne things to SJs especially STJs, their face opens up and you can see how impressed they get. BUT, when I say negative Ne things to STJS they say "Your jumping to conclusions you don't KNOW!" so just be careful.
And one time I noticed with a much older ESTJ we were in a room full of people while watching TV, there was a commercial that had a really dumb joke in it, and me and him were the only one's that laughed lol, my mind immediately thought of the cognitive functions and how this might be an Ne-Ne connection lol.
STJs are good in my book. My dad's one, and growing up it was hard, but his Fi and Ne is coming around it rounds him out nicely.
SJs can appreciate Ne, if they have Ne inf or Ne tert they appreciate someone whose good with Ne.
One of my good friends is an ESTJ and I'm an INFP and our friendships is very easy, I'm already impressed with his direct approach to the world and usually he is very shocked by my insights.
Also they say sensors don't like to talk about deep things, not always true, some may be less confident in their ability to do so, but I know 3 ESTJs and deep conversations intrigue all 3 of them, I guess Ne tert helps them relax around someone who has Ne dom or Ne aux. ESPECIALLY older ESTJs, they like to relax by doing Ne things and exploring Ne.
When I say Ne things to SJs especially STJs, their face opens up and you can see how impressed they get. BUT, when I say negative Ne things to STJS they say "Your jumping to conclusions you don't KNOW!" so just be careful.
And one time I noticed with a much older ESTJ we were in a room full of people while watching TV, there was a commercial that had a really dumb joke in it, and me and him were the only one's that laughed lol, my mind immediately thought of the cognitive functions and how this might be an Ne-Ne connection lol.
STJs are good in my book. My dad's one, and growing up it was hard, but his Fi and Ne is coming around it rounds him out nicely.
Yeah, I don't seee anything wrong with ENFPs. I try to get along with everyone, no matter of type. I think some NTs make me a bit apprehensive. Some ENFPs can be really bubbly and stuff but we can get along. I have a friend who has helped me a lot who's an ENFP I think. We've not talked in a long time because she has got a son and a job and has gotten super busy but I should probably say hi to Michelle. My notetaker Meghan was an ENFP she said so and I don't doubt it. She was very nice and also very good at what she did for me. She was one of the better ones too. Maybe Eneagram types also matter? I am a 1w9. I like NFs though. I have several INFJ male friends. and My former boyfriend still pretty good friend of mine Ricky is either ENFP or ENFJ I think ENFJ because he can get very much opinionated on politics and very decisive. I also have a friend who's INFP I am pretty sure. I get along with him when he doesn't try to tell me who I am and what I should be like. but yeah. NFs are fine.
My ex is ESTJ. I saw another thread on the estj forum about estjs and appearances. My ex used the term "the optics" so much it made my soul hurt. He cares a great deal about money and prestige. Idk if it's an INFJ or NF or individual thing, but it was killing my soul before I got out. Maybe even an E vs I thing. He can do politicking all day. Very fake. Nice and friendly, but hides a dark past he doesn't address. Doesn't listen. Can't hear. His way or the highway...just my 2 cents.
Estjs and me i don't know
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