Haha, curious about INFJ men? :tongue:
When I am alone I am either analyzing something or I am off in my own world listening to my MP3 player. Occassionally, I will watch a movie. (I am a movie buff, and I have a big collection.)
I'm about as adorable as kitten stew. It just sucks that I'm labelled as "clingy" or "obsessive" for feeling genuinely in love with the (few) girls I have ever been with.Aww you guys sound adorable! :laughing:
Actually much more shy and reserved than on the *interwebs* lol...
... Are you me?Old thread, but why not?
Outside the interwebs... How are you male INFJs are like?
I'm fairly similar to how I act on the Internet, actually... Quit, reserved and polite, but I'll get fired up if something catches my interest.
How do you guys act alone?
When I'm alone I have two states: the daydreaming state where I just kind of sit there with a dull look on my face with my head in the clouds, and my concentrated state where I'm focused intensely on some sort of task, usually reading or writing.
Around people that I don't know I'm polite but always a bit tense. In that situation I'll avoid talking to people as much as possible. If I'm with a group of friends I talk a lot more and joke around, though I'm still usually the quietest person in the room.
With someone you like romantically?
When I'm with someone I like romantically I'm way too self conscious of everything that I do. I end up saying stupid things, making bad jokes and just generally making an awkward mess of myself because I feel like any momentary pause in conversation will mean that it'll end. If we're able to make it past that first awkward stage though we usually are able to have some nice, deep conversations.
+1Alone, I tend to either play videogames or go on information binges. I do other things, of course, but the point is that they're not all that interesting.
Haha.. I've read before and seen in real life that some INFJ men guard their masculinity and take issue with any labels like "cute, adorable, nice, sweet" etc. One guy I knew used to say cute is for teddy bears, another used to say sweet was for candy but I could call him chocolate.. lol. My real Dad is INFJ and he does not appreciate the fact that he is emotional and easily brought to tears.. in fact he despises it and avoids having a girlfriend because he doesn't want to be laughed at. Apparently being an emotional truck driver is not OK in his book.I'm about as adorable as kitten stew. It just sucks that I'm labelled as "clingy" or "obsessive" for feeling genuinely in love with the (few) girls I have ever been with.
It's also a good thing you didn't ask us about intimacy. I know in my case I can contrast "adorable" quite well here.