Outside the interwebs... How are you male INFJs are like? How do you guys act alone? With people? With someone you like romantically?
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+1Alone, I tend to either play videogames or go on information binges. I do other things, of course, but the point is that they're not all that interesting.
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Outside the interwebs... How are you male INFJs are like?
I'm fairly similar to how I act on the Internet, actually... Quit, reserved and polite, but I'll get fired up if something catches my interest.
How do you guys act alone?
When I'm alone I have two states: the daydreaming state where I just kind of sit there with a dull look on my face with my head in the clouds, and my concentrated state where I'm focused intensely on some sort of task, usually reading or writing.
With people?
Around people that I don't know I'm polite but always a bit tense. In that situation I'll avoid talking to people as much as possible. If I'm with a group of friends I talk a lot more and joke around, though I'm still usually the quietest person in the room.
With someone you like romantically?
When I'm with someone I like romantically I'm way too self conscious of everything that I do. I end up saying stupid things, making bad jokes and just generally making an awkward mess of myself because I feel like any momentary pause in conversation will mean that it'll end. If we're able to make it past that first awkward stage though we usually are able to have some nice, deep conversations.
At work or when performing tasks, we're often intently serious people. We might seem like we have no sense of humor.How are you male INFJs are like?
Our minds are usually active when alone. We engage in intellectual hobbies, generally. We might also enjoy occasional hobbies of the senses, such as sports.How do you guys act alone?
Depends on the people. We are not social butterflies. We're best around people we know and are comfortable with. It takes us time to be comfortable with anyone. If a friend we like introduces us to a new group of friends and plans for us to hang-out, don't expect us to behave the same as we do when we're just around the friend. We generally modify our behavior to correspond to the person we least know in a group... unless we're a group leader or co-leader. Then we might be more open, but still, we generally like to know who we're dealing with.With people?
Infinite possibilities here. When you reach the core of an INFJ, you'll find something different in each one. Some are the darkest, hate-filled people who walk this Earth, some are angels in human form.With someone you like romantically?
You're perfectly fine and just haven't realized it yet and so, internal and external problems arise from this perception of ourselves.I consider myself an unhealthy INFJ. So let me preface by saying that.
AWW! lolI am the guy who will rush ahead of you to open the door even if it is awkward
I am the guy who will want to smother you with love, but then worry if I am doing too much
I am the guy who wants to just love you