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-not a drinker (have seen too many lives ruined by it, so I resent the stuff and also haven't been able to enjoy the taste either)
-stay indoors, at home most of the time
-can be cold, can repress my feelings or not be fully aware of why they occur (I actually am torn sometimes between feeler and thinker, but the older I get the less I want to base decisions on feelings...though part of me believes there is still a lot of usefulness/insights to be gained from Fi)
-idealize health and healthy habits (though following it is another struggle)
-not much of a shopper...until I discovered online shopping. Lol. And even then, I am frugal with my cash.
-haven't cared about dressing nice till recently, usually just want to be comfortable
-often lead others to believe I am more academic/intelligent than I actually feel or want to be...I am curious and understand concepts quickly in class and can contribute to theoretical discussions...but I have a limit and no I don't want to do your assignments/homework/study for ur tests/write papers
-but out of all that, I like writing best
-i like pics and vids of kids than actual kids themselves, lol. Like filming my nieces/nephews rather than babysitting. They are so much work and so moody! But then, I feel like one day I want to be a mom, if my health permits.
-i can be extremely loyal to a fault...and give many chances...but once I write you off...it can very much be over for life
-get depressed/negative/cynical easily...though I'm working on that (sometimes I feel like I see truth more readily when I'm low, like a veil has been pulled aside and reality is raw and ugly and I'm seeing it for the first time in the correct light...when in the past, everything could be spun in a positive light. I'm back to trying to recapture my youth's optimism, but it is hard...I think I am turning to more of a realist, which I guess fits the esfp stereotype)
Yeah, all of that sounds like me, especially the second one to some extent. To the point where sometimes I am considered an
introvert, but I actually enjoy talking with interesting people. It is just so damn rare, and I am at a mid point between idealism-and realist.
 
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For me, I can say I am ESFP more than ISFP due to how little Ni I use. One stereotype that does not really work as well for me. I am not necessarily a party animal, but I have been in a lot of different discussions to the point where I became bored with what people say. I don't really feel anxiety when talking to people, just I am never really sure how people will react to what I say and a lot of times I say it anyway without thinking and because mostly what a lot of people say, I've already heard before. I do jump into a lot of moments without a plan and later realize.. "Man, I jumped into something pretty big." I try to give at least everything a shot though.
Hory crap! Making risky decisions!! I thought that was fucking NF.. Then they said its P.. Hory sheeeettt
 

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I used to think for a while I was an ESFP, but then others told me I couldn't possibly be one because a, b, and c. I believed them, but I am back thinking I might be one.

What puts me off is the insistence that we are "party animals" and need people like we need air. I also have a graduate degree in pharmacy and am back in grad school right now for another Master's. But I kind of do feel like, even if I work hard, study, and get good grades, that there is something missing in my life...frankly, need more stimulation/excitement/inspiration.

I online tested as so many types once (ENFJ, INFJ, INFP, INTP, ENTP, etc), which led me into a wild goose chase and full on confusion. On the official test I got ISTP and INTJ before as a teen. But I think this is actually where I might be at. I was at home on the ISFP forum for a long time, but something still feels off. I used to believe I was an extrovert...but then after a long stint of depression, I became way more introspective and introverted. And now, I dunno really where I get my energy from. I do feel like Se saves me at times, from being too in my head, too anxious, so I am back thinking maybe it is my first function after-all.
Se!! Hory shet. I thought too that my dom function is Ne.. But Ne makes me fucking depressed!!! And indeed Se saves me from my fucking depression. Like wtf man. XD like wtfffff!!!!!!!!!!! Why i can relate to you guys..

Me too. I tried being an Intuitive, a feeler but it depressed the fuck out me.. It's like i became a different person.. Specially hanging out with the intuitive types like they are saying I'm Like "them" I'm so wordly.. Wtf!!!!! I tried to be like them but guess what it just made me fucking depressed trying to be someone i am so fucking not!

I.. Okay.. I know i got lots of bad habits which my NF friends stopped me from doing which is a good thing.. But then, i pushed myself too much that i lost myself...
 

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So you know you have Ne in you, Se in you, but not sure if you know enough Ti or Fi in you?
I realized this..

I have this dom function
Se and Ne

And aux function

Ti and Fi

I use those functions simultaneously depends on a particular situation

1. Se and Fi - i use this when trying to make fucking friends baby or if I'm on the trying to be nice i guess u knoe the feeling nyahaha
2. Se and Ti - i use this when I'm already comfortable with everyone xD
3. Ne and Fi - i am like this when drunk. And during night time, i swear..
4. Ne and Ti - i use this at work. Programming job.
 

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I realized this..

I have this dom function
Se and Ne

And aux function

Ti and Fi

I use those functions simultaneously depends on a particular situation

1. Se and Fi - i use this when trying to make fucking friends baby or if I'm on the trying to be nice i guess u knoe the feeling nyahaha
2. Se and Ti - i use this when I'm already comfortable with everyone xD
3. Ne and Fi - i am like this when drunk. And during night time, i swear..
4. Ne and Ti - i use this at work. Programming job.
*facepalm*
 

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I realized this..

I have this dom function
Se and Ne

And aux function

Ti and Fi

I use those functions simultaneously depends on a particular situation

1. Se and Fi - i use this when trying to make fucking friends baby or if I'm on the trying to be nice i guess u knoe the feeling nyahaha
2. Se and Ti - i use this when I'm already comfortable with everyone xD
3. Ne and Fi - i am like this when drunk. And during night time, i swear..
4. Ne and Ti - i use this at work. Programming job.
Wouldn't the first one be Fe though? Because you would be trying to be a bit polite..? Also, how do you know you use Ti?
 
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Wouldn't the first one be Fe though? Because you would be trying to be a bit polite..? Also, how do you know you use Ti?
Hmmmm.. I don't know.. I hate people actually.. XD I'm just practicing being polite because it's a must but that's not my nature
 

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Hahahahaha xD why??!! It's true hihi. I cannot really know what's my dom function.. Do you have any tips?!!
Okay, I will tell you why. Everytime you try to talk about cognitive functions, you mess up somewhere (that's honest sentence, so sorry if it hurts) and you look like you don't really know how they all work or how they are influencing your actions. Also you like yourself too much (yes I do that myself, but I respect other's opinions). You are happy and maybe too happy, that's why you are so confusing to type. I wanted to type you earlier in questionnaire, but instead you vandalised it. Anyway, I have observed you more. I collected some data about you.

First of all, let's focus on what is your core. You are always happy and bit crazy (at least in perC). I don't think, that those are thinker traits. I can see your emotions everywhere. It could be either Fi or Fe. Let's continue further and advance to your preffered perception type. I see, that your perception is directed to outside objects. You don't really show very much intuition overall (Jesus, so many of your stuff is about male genitals). You don't talk about them much or very seriously and what you do is for entertainment. I, personally, want to associate your traits with Se. The only way I can see your "Ti" is about making jokes and 18+ (lol I'm 17, such badass, much wow) content, but I don't really think, it's Ti. I think, that it's your outgoing side. When I was active in ISFP forum almost everyone thought, that I'm some kind of thinker, but what it actually was? It was just notch higher Te and Se. You think, that you may have intuition, well Ne to be more concrete. I don't see it, but I had doubts about having it myself. Turned out, that it's my Se and it doesn't have much to do with intuition. I can say, that this is trap and it's easy to confuse them (yet I still have hard time differentiating both lol). I have created this thread http://personalitycafe.com/cognitive-functions/919658-mistype-theory.html myself . It's theory, but people it accepted as possible of being quite accurate to some individuals. Some functions may look like others, but in theorical reality they aren't like that. I want to think, that you are ESFP. Yet I don't really want to limit myself to only that possibility. If you want to hear other people's opinion, I could reccommend PMing or writting there http://personalitycafe.com/whats-my-personality-type/987474-blue-ribbons-typing-thread.html to member Blue Ribbon or PMing Ferroequinologist (He knows a lot, but he doesn't really wanna judge your type. After some extensive talking he would say, what he has observed and overall he is a nice guy. Also he may seem being a bit "dead" inside, but you can gently kick into his arse and make him lively lol).

Now, let's analyse a bit what you have said in this thread:
Me too. I tried being an Intuitive, a feeler but it depressed the fuck out me.. It's like i became a different person.. I can understand this. Maybe you are trying to use your Ni (which is probably inferior). Using your inferior isn't very natural and can be exhausting. All people have it, but your prefference is probably sensing.

Specially hanging out with the intuitive types like they are saying I'm Like "them" I'm so wordly.. Wtf!!!!! I tried to be like them but guess what it just made me fucking depressed trying to be someone i am so fucking not! I would say, that you aren't intuitive, but that doesn't make you uncool (Se is totally cool function, I'm in love with it XD).

I.. Okay.. I know i got lots of bad habits which my NF friends stopped me from doing which is a good thing.. Opposites are sometimes hell to deal with, but sometimes, they help you to see from different perspectives (I live with ISTJ mom, so yeah. It is very different.)

But then, i pushed myself too much that i lost myself... ouch, poor Atama

Hahaha
I figured out im actually combination of these

Esfp
Estp
Enfp
Entp

You can't be like that. No, just no.

I have this dom function
Se and Ne

And aux function

Ti and Fi

I think same, you, probably, didn't mess up here

I use those functions simultaneously depends on a particular situation and there comes headache part

1. Se and Fi - i use this when trying to make fucking friends baby or if I'm on the trying to be nice i guess u knoe the feeling nyahaha
2. Se and Ti - i use this when I'm already comfortable with everyone xD
3. Ne and Fi - i am like this when drunk. And during night time, i swear..
4. Ne and Ti - i use this at work. Programming job.

Se Fi isn't completely like that. Se Ti I don't agree, I think it's just your Se Fi comfortable and that could be really strange sometimes. Ne Fi I still think, that it's just your Se unleashed and Fi bit loose. Ne Ti it doesn't work that way. You can be programmer and don't use Ti. It's normal and lots of people don't use it, yet they fare well. I did programming at school, but it got boring, due to writing same code for months, only changing few lines. I'm pretty sure, that most of the class didn't enjoy that either. Only ISFJ liked it a lot lol.

Hmmmm.. I don't know.. I hate people actually.. XD I'm just practicing being polite because it's a must but that's not my nature Are you sure? You seem polite here, but there are some things, I don't like. I, personally, suggest to rethink, what you have said, because you probably wrote that without thinking much. I thought myself, that I wasn't very polite, but when I looked at other people, I really think, that they are horrible and word polite isn't in their dictionaries. It's nice quality to be polite and I recommend you to don't devalue it.

I also hate people. @Memory of Talon that's a nice joke. More like "I hate people" wannabe. You are such a nice person on perC. Maybe people around you aren't very interesting and appear dull? Also, you have some feelings for @Blue Ribbon and that's quite awesome. I can't even imagine, what it would be like to meet someone, that I chatted with on perC (yet I could do that if I wanted, because he lives in neighbour country)

So, @atamagasuita. What do you think about my analysis?
 

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Okay, I will tell you why. Everytime you try to talk about cognitive functions, you mess up somewhere (that's honest sentence, so sorry if it hurts) and you look like you don't really know how they all work or how they are influencing your actions. Also you like yourself too much (yes I do that myself, but I respect other's opinions). You are happy and maybe too happy, that's why you are so confusing to type. I wanted to type you earlier in questionnaire, but instead you vandalised it. Anyway, I have observed you more. I collected some data about you.

First of all, let's focus on what is your core. You are always happy and bit crazy (at least in perC). I don't think, that those are thinker traits. I can see your emotions everywhere. It could be either Fi or Fe. Let's continue further and advance to your preffered perception type. I see, that your perception is directed to outside objects. You don't really show very much intuition overall (Jesus, so many of your stuff is about male genitals). You don't talk about them much or very seriously and what you do is for entertainment. I, personally, want to associate your traits with Se. The only way I can see your "Ti" is about making jokes and 18+ (lol I'm 17, such badass, much wow) content, but I don't really think, it's Ti. I think, that it's your outgoing side. When I was active in ISFP forum almost everyone thought, that I'm some kind of thinker, but what it actually was? It was just notch higher Te and Se. You think, that you may have intuition, well Ne to be more concrete. I don't see it, but I had doubts about having it myself. Turned out, that it's my Se and it doesn't have much to do with intuition. I can say, that this is trap and it's easy to confuse them (yet I still have hard time differentiating both lol). I have created this thread http://personalitycafe.com/cognitive-functions/919658-mistype-theory.html myself . It's theory, but people it accepted as possible of being quite accurate to some individuals. Some functions may look like others, but in theorical reality they aren't like that. I want to think, that you are ESFP. Yet I don't really want to limit myself to only that possibility. If you want to hear other people's opinion, I could reccommend PMing or writting there http://personalitycafe.com/whats-my-personality-type/987474-blue-ribbons-typing-thread.html to member Blue Ribbon or PMing Ferroequinologist (He knows a lot, but he doesn't really wanna judge your type. After some extensive talking he would say, what he has observed and overall he is a nice guy. Also he may seem being a bit "dead" inside, but you can gently kick into his arse and make him lively lol).

Now, let's analyse a bit what you have said in this thread:
Me too. I tried being an Intuitive, a feeler but it depressed the fuck out me.. It's like i became a different person.. I can understand this. Maybe you are trying to use your Ni (which is probably inferior). Using your inferior isn't very natural and can be exhausting. All people have it, but your prefference is probably sensing.

Specially hanging out with the intuitive types like they are saying I'm Like "them" I'm so wordly.. Wtf!!!!! I tried to be like them but guess what it just made me fucking depressed trying to be someone i am so fucking not! I would say, that you aren't intuitive, but that doesn't make you uncool (Se is totally cool function, I'm in love with it XD).

I.. Okay.. I know i got lots of bad habits which my NF friends stopped me from doing which is a good thing.. Opposites are sometimes hell to deal with, but sometimes, they help you to see from different perspectives (I live with ISTJ mom, so yeah. It is very different.)

But then, i pushed myself too much that i lost myself... ouch, poor Atama

Hahaha
I figured out im actually combination of these

Esfp
Estp
Enfp
Entp

You can't be like that. No, just no.

I have this dom function
Se and Ne

And aux function

Ti and Fi

I think same, you, probably, didn't mess up here

I use those functions simultaneously depends on a particular situation and there comes headache part

1. Se and Fi - i use this when trying to make fucking friends baby or if I'm on the trying to be nice i guess u knoe the feeling nyahaha
2. Se and Ti - i use this when I'm already comfortable with everyone xD
3. Ne and Fi - i am like this when drunk. And during night time, i swear..
4. Ne and Ti - i use this at work. Programming job.

Se Fi isn't completely like that. Se Ti I don't agree, I think it's just your Se Fi comfortable and that could be really strange sometimes. Ne Fi I still think, that it's just your Se unleashed and Fi bit loose. Ne Ti it doesn't work that way. You can be programmer and don't use Ti. It's normal and lots of people don't use it, yet they fare well. I did programming at school, but it got boring, due to writing same code for months, only changing few lines. I'm pretty sure, that most of the class didn't enjoy that either. Only ISFJ liked it a lot lol.

Hmmmm.. I don't know.. I hate people actually.. XD I'm just practicing being polite because it's a must but that's not my nature Are you sure? You seem polite here, but there are some things, I don't like. I, personally, suggest to rethink, what you have said, because you probably wrote that without thinking much. I thought myself, that I wasn't very polite, but when I looked at other people, I really think, that they are horrible and word polite isn't in their dictionaries. It's nice quality to be polite and I recommend you to don't devalue it.

I also hate people. @Memory of Talon that's a nice joke. More like "I hate people" wannabe. You are such a nice person on perC. Maybe people around you aren't very interesting and appear dull? Also, you have some feelings for @Blue Ribbon and that's quite awesome. I can't even imagine, what it would be like to meet someone, that I chatted with on perC (yet I could do that if I wanted, because he lives in neighbour country)

So, @atamagasuita. What do you think about my analysis?
Hmmmmmmmm I'll pm you
 

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Hmmmm.. I don't know.. I hate people actually.. XD I'm just practicing being polite because it's a must but that's not my nature
I see. Well, I am not really sure for you specifically. One thing I tend to notice about myself, is that a lot of what I hate is intangible?

Like, I don't hate people, I hate "stupidity" in people, bad conversation, symbolism to some extent, all stuff I couldn't actually punch that just hovers around.
 
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I see. Well, I am not really sure for you specifically. One thing I tend to notice about myself, is that a lot of what I hate is intangible?

Like, I don't hate people, I hate "stupidity" in people, bad conversation, symbolism to some extent, all stuff I couldn't actually punch that just hovers around.
Ahh yeah. True. I don't really hate people.. Because i know some amazing people and i super respect them.. What i hate is really stupidity and assholery and wtf. Yeah..
 
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