I easily look down on people who conform A LOT, have sheep-like tendencies and also people who are wannabes. I also look down on people who are very subjective, superficial/shallow and opinionated. How do I stop looking down on them? I hate it so much and I know I'm not better than them, I just feel like I am sometimes. I grew up being a wannabe conformist during middle school so I now see through all the people who still act like that too and think they're cool or who think that that's what being cool is all about. I think there are a lot of INTJs who have narcissistic tendencies but I don't believe I'm a narcissist. Is there any advice from INTJs who used to be like this or are still dealing with this kind of stuff? I figured it was because I am still quite young and may just be immature. I want to enjoy being around different people but sometimes I feel like my friends are lame because of the way they act and view things. Please, any advice?