Say, you've got an ESTP friend who you're also honest with and who is always honest with you, and they really want to know the truth at all times, so you spill it out; but it ain't pretty. Say, that friend is going through something. How do you ESTPs react? Do you pull away and distance yourself of the friend, because you don't know what to do? How do you ESTPs deal with others' difficult feelings and life situations?
I've seen this sort of behaviour from Ts before, I mean pulling away out of helplessness and simply not knowing how to handle it. I just never seem to be able to anticipate just "how much" they are able to cope with before it crosses that line. What's your take on this, ESTPs?
The point being I do spill it out rationally and understand the situation objectively and am looking for solutions to fix it, but can't help but be influenced by the emotions too and let's face it, I am moody sometimes. It's like... You guys know something's up, and anything else would be a cover up and you see past that too, but now I think that might've been a better way to go, for the first time.
I've seen this sort of behaviour from Ts before, I mean pulling away out of helplessness and simply not knowing how to handle it. I just never seem to be able to anticipate just "how much" they are able to cope with before it crosses that line. What's your take on this, ESTPs?
The point being I do spill it out rationally and understand the situation objectively and am looking for solutions to fix it, but can't help but be influenced by the emotions too and let's face it, I am moody sometimes. It's like... You guys know something's up, and anything else would be a cover up and you see past that too, but now I think that might've been a better way to go, for the first time.