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Okay, so I am very energetic peppy, emotional guy. Therefore, I am basically the opposite of 5's. I have a hard time dealing with 5's because are so cold, unemotional and logical. How do I get along with you guys?
It's just wierd because I can't read you guys like I can other people. You are so unemotional that you are like robots. It's hard to guage how to act around you sociallyJust give us the chance to warm up to you. Then the aloofness eventually decreases.
Just engage anyway, even if you aren't getting the normal social cues. I find it very hard to initiate conversations, even if I want to talk.It's just wierd because I can't read you guys like I can other people. You are so unemotional that you are like robots. It's hard to guage how to act around you socially
Yeah, but every time I do that, you guy's just look so annoyed like you want to be left alone. I feel like I'm being looked at as a nuisance.Just engage anyway, even if you aren't getting the normal social cues. I find it very hard to initiate conversations, even if I want to talk.
Just be yourself and see where it takes you, I don't always outwardly show my true feelings towards somebody, there's a good chance they like you and you aren't able to read their signals(IE actually responding to you over a simple yes/no).Okay, so I am very energetic peppy, emotional guy. Therefore, I am basically the opposite of 5's. I have a hard time dealing with 5's because are so cold, unemotional and logical. How do I get along with you guys?
Yeah, I know what you mean. It would almost be better IRL if someone would give me hint that I was dealing with an INTP 5 like yourself before I actually met them in real life lol. No offense, but I approach you guys and I'm just like, "What crawled up that guy's ass and died?" Luckily now that I have studied MBTI and enneagram I take a much more open-minded approach. But yeah, sometimes you guys can confuse the hell out of me.Just be yourself and see where it takes you, I don't always outwardly show my true feelings towards somebody, there's a good chance they like you and you aren't able to read their signals(IE actually responding to you over a simple yes/no).
Well, as much as I'd like everybody to know exactly how to deal with each other, I'm not about to go and tell somebody I'm a Type 5 INTP in my introduction...might as well be a goodbye if they don't know what it is, or even if they do. :shocked:Yeah, I know what you mean. It would almost be better IRL if someone would give me hint that I was dealing with an INTP 5 like yourself before I actually met them in real life lol. No offense, but I approach you guys and I'm just like, "What crawled up that guy's ass and died?" Luckily now that I have studied MBTI and enneagram I take a much more open-minded approach. But yeah, sometimes you guys can confuse the hell out of me.
lol, no shit I don't get along with you guys. I constantly probe for info. My Ne naturally makes me curious about people, so I ask a lot of questions. It is my way of trying to be friendly. I did this with an INTJ 5 one time, and he said, "What are you the fucking FBI? You don't need to know all of that shit!" I was like, "Fuck you dude!", and we almost got in a fight.Usually we do want to be left alone. The best way to make us talk is to figure out what we're interested in, and then talk about that. Small talk will get you nowhere. Be interesting, appreciate our intelligence, and above all, don't probe (I can't stand nosy people).
Best way to get along with a 5w6 : Be open minded to anything, be willing to support what you say, don't take things we say personally(you'd know if we really didn't like you....lol), bring food(who doesn't like food?).@Intelligent
I know that I can't take it personal, it's just the way that the 5's naturally act. It's just very hard to get used to, that's all.
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Okay, so if that's the case, then how do I know when a 5 is just being themselves and when they really are annoyed by me, don't like me, are or angered by me?
Ask. I know I would answer truthfully.Okay, so if that's the case, then how do I know when a 5 is just being themselves and when they really are annoyed by me, don't like me, are or angered by me?
But how? What specifically would a 5 do to let me know that they don't like me?Best way to get along with a 5w6 : Be open minded to anything, be willing to support what you say, don't take things we say personally(you'd know if we really didn't like you....lol), bring food(who doesn't like food?).
So I literally just ask them point blank, "Do you hate my guts?"Ask. I know I would answer truthfully.
Lol. What an icebreaker. You should try it.So I literally just ask them point blank, "Do you hate my guts?"