There is an INTP I am crushing on. I work with him and he is sending me mixed signals...At one point it seemed like we were close to dating, but then he just ignored me for months. Recently, he asked me to hangout, and then ignored me when I followed up about it. How should I react to this? The truth is, I just want him in my life. Yet, I feel like if I let him continue to ignore me and just say "it's okay!", I will be seen as a pushover. All my friends who know the whole story (it's much longer) say he makes no sense, and that if he tries to reschedule I shouldn’t say yes, or at least make it clear it’s rude to ignore someone like that. But, I don’t want to scare him away. Still, I feel that if you don’t demand respect, then people won’t love or desire you – because then you’re just seen as a pitiful pushover and I want to obviously avoid that...I know INTPs sometimes need to be pursued but I can't deal with being ignored anymore. We have such similar interests and I know INTPs enough to know when they are generally vibing with someone – and we vibe a lot, like two excited Ne puppies. I don’t like to be socially manipulative or hold things over people, but I don’t want to be seen as someone he can act in whatever way with. So how do you deal with INTPs fickleness in a way that doesn't make you pathetic in their eyes?