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I wrote about him before - thought he was INFJ or ENTJ, but neither seem to accurately fit. Very ENTJish and INFJish but not really either, but he really fits the INTJ almost down to the line. When I compare him to other intjs, i definitely see him as an INTJ.
Anyway. not my main point.
My main point is that I am attracted to him, but not obsessively... i dont fantasize about wanting this connection with him or have daydreams. I take him out of my mind, but after an encounter with him, I'm strangely drawn to him, and he keeps coming back into my mind, and i'm just drawn to him like a magnet.
First, i felt we were like the same ends of a magnet and that we kept repelling each other and being guarded. now, i feel drawn to him. and im curious about him. want more quality time with him.
And the embarrassing part is that he seems to pick up on these vibes and sees through my actions.
I feel really vulnerable when I'm near him because of this -- he seems to see through most people and he is kind of intimidating, even though when you get to know him he's kinda nice.
There's definitely an attraction there, and i wonder if he feels the same, but regardless - for this project, there are office policies on no dating. so i must obey those rules.
but it's hard for me to feel one way and pretend it's not there. so tips INFJs, how do I not give myself away? any advice or tips from past experiences? im bad at acting, and i dont know what to do. its not that i want to act like another person, but i feel so vulnerable yet i dont know what to do since he doesnt talk about it and plus we cant talk about it anyway...
Anyway. not my main point.
My main point is that I am attracted to him, but not obsessively... i dont fantasize about wanting this connection with him or have daydreams. I take him out of my mind, but after an encounter with him, I'm strangely drawn to him, and he keeps coming back into my mind, and i'm just drawn to him like a magnet.
First, i felt we were like the same ends of a magnet and that we kept repelling each other and being guarded. now, i feel drawn to him. and im curious about him. want more quality time with him.
And the embarrassing part is that he seems to pick up on these vibes and sees through my actions.
I feel really vulnerable when I'm near him because of this -- he seems to see through most people and he is kind of intimidating, even though when you get to know him he's kinda nice.
There's definitely an attraction there, and i wonder if he feels the same, but regardless - for this project, there are office policies on no dating. so i must obey those rules.
but it's hard for me to feel one way and pretend it's not there. so tips INFJs, how do I not give myself away? any advice or tips from past experiences? im bad at acting, and i dont know what to do. its not that i want to act like another person, but i feel so vulnerable yet i dont know what to do since he doesnt talk about it and plus we cant talk about it anyway...