Talon. You're back? We need to talk!Its possible that it could be the hormones but ESFP in general can become quite distant in times of great stress. In these times ESFP can become detached and want some space so that they can figure things out on their own. ESFP do not like to express every single worry that is on their minds simply because they also don't like being told what to do.
Its possible for an ESFP to become distant just to keep from hearing someone nag. (I've purposeless stop talking to loved ones about specific problems because I think I know what they are going to say already)
My question to you is, why are you so worried? From what I've read so far it seems that everything was great up untill 3 weeks ago when she started to become somewhat cold towards you, and you think it might have to do with the pregnancy. It doesn't seem like anything in the relationship between you and her are in trouble. I wouldn't worry about it so much unless she says something to you. If you feel there are other reasons as to WHY she might be distant, then I would ask you to share these concerns with us so we have more information to work off of.
For example, is she scared of revealing the pregnancy to the family? Also have you tried asking her if anything is wrong and if you have what does she say about it?
Jojo, you can't force someone to love you. I've seen so many of my ENFJ friends try to make this happen with their partner. It always leads to catastrophe, until they are the ones finally willing to let it go. For some reason, it's very important to not feel like they weren't the ones being left.Indeed we broke up on Monday and then we got back together after she told me she was pregnant. But since then the relationship is non existant but she also told me she broke up because she was worried she was pregnant. No I am not married. We have gone out since then......
You were together 2 months, Jojo. No one knows if they have what it takes to make a relationship after just two months. You were barely getting to know each other when you started having problems.I am not forcing as I am asking advice and trying to understand the personality of the ESFP. I am looking to best understand this relationships. We are still together and she has been warm and willing. She wanted space and that seems normal with ESFP. This is a process and I want to the best. I believe relationships take work and many don't the take the time educate themselves about others feelings and personality that's what I trying achieve. Thanks so far for input.
Also post 26 happened before the pregnant announcement and again she said she did break it off because of the pregnant findings. She did apologize for that.