Joined
·
3,304 Posts
As an ISTJ, I have to ask:
Just who is she?
Recently met this girl in school. We've hung out in groups on a couple of occasions and my interest in her has grown.
However, I've been reading up on personalities and from what little I've learned, I have a sneaking suspicion she's the one type that when in proximity to ISTJs creates strong attractions but also a high potential for clashes: an ENFP.
I don't know how it happened. She's not even great-looking. Go figure, guess it means I'm not that superficial! :tongue:
But she's really spontaneous, funny, effervescent, and just nice in general. Always excited about the little things. To top it off, she's always an easy target for poking fun at. :laughing:
How else do I gauge what she is? My curiosity in her rose the day she while in an alcohol buzz harassed me to trade shots with her then proceeded to put me on the spot. The convo went something like this:
Her: How many girlfriends have you had?
Me: None.
Her: *Gasp!* Is it because of a religion, or is it because you're shy? If it's because you're shy, I think that's cute!
Me: *Runs away to the other table*
That aside, besides getting her to take the 75-question MBTI test, what other signs should I look for?
Just who is she?
Recently met this girl in school. We've hung out in groups on a couple of occasions and my interest in her has grown.
However, I've been reading up on personalities and from what little I've learned, I have a sneaking suspicion she's the one type that when in proximity to ISTJs creates strong attractions but also a high potential for clashes: an ENFP.
I don't know how it happened. She's not even great-looking. Go figure, guess it means I'm not that superficial! :tongue:
But she's really spontaneous, funny, effervescent, and just nice in general. Always excited about the little things. To top it off, she's always an easy target for poking fun at. :laughing:
How else do I gauge what she is? My curiosity in her rose the day she while in an alcohol buzz harassed me to trade shots with her then proceeded to put me on the spot. The convo went something like this:
Her: How many girlfriends have you had?
Me: None.
Her: *Gasp!* Is it because of a religion, or is it because you're shy? If it's because you're shy, I think that's cute!
Me: *Runs away to the other table*
That aside, besides getting her to take the 75-question MBTI test, what other signs should I look for?