When someone beams their Te -at- me, if its called for in the moment, and if it actually seems reasonable to me, fine. This is often not the case though.
First line of defense against Te when it annoys me: I will politely ignore it. This is a distinct signal that I'm not hearing all that shit, and I'm nice enough to not tell you its fucking overkill, beating a stinking dead horse, painfully pointless, or completely irrational by my standards. I will stay silent and unresponsive and hope that serves as an icy glass of water poured over their overheating head full of hyperactive grinding gears.
The worst thing that they could do is persist. And its often the case that their lack of Fe is going to cause them to completely not understand my willful blindness to their prodding. At some point I might explain, this is what that means - it essentially means fuck off.
The Te dom who has crossed me then comes to a very important crossroads in their life: choose the path of fucking off, or choose the path that eventually leads to stomping around in a tantrum. The wise man chooses the path of fucking off. Often, the younger more hyper "puppy phase" Te dom will naively try to penetrate my defenses.
Here is how that is going to escalate for us:
- I flatly tell you why what you are proposing/directing is uncalled for, overkill, pointless, not rational by my standards.
- You resist and I start to stick wrenches in all those little gears by purposely acting like I don't even understand your completely obtuse rationalization.
- Malfunction, smoke, fire, explosion, and we both walk away.
Repeat 029438039x and eventually they get it and learn the right path, the safe path, the non-Te-head-explodey path.
And don't get me wrong, there are some Te doms who I have valued as friends, but when they go all hyper with their attempts to direct me, we gots prollems. Things just have to be done my own way at my own pace most of the time, and I depend on my own logic too much to just let someone take the reins.