It's almost impossible for me to break up even when every fiber of my being knows it's got to happen eventually. The reasons for staying always hold more weight than my reasons for wanting to leave. For example, if my significant other actually hasn't DONE anything to warrant a break up, then I won't do it even if I don't like the person anymore. One side of me says you only live once, go after your dreams. The other side says not to hurt my love(d). Do other INFJ's seem to follow the same pattern? Who did you talk to for advice? Was it any help?