Im actually kinda quiet and anxious myself, but am...getting over it basically. There was this girl in one of my classes today who was giving a presentation and she was nervous as fuck. Her voice was staggering and she was out of breath and stuff.
Made me want to like, talk to her, make her laugh...but im a pretty anxious person myself, and really dont know how people see me. I assume people see me as how i see other quiet people. But you can tell if they are quiet and annoying as opposed to quiet, yet confident on the inside...somehow...Being quiet, but NOT being all weird and rebellious...ya....thats it.
Im thinking that you have introverts who are naturally quiet, and then extroverts who are quiet, but extroverted if you get to know them...I knew this kid in highschool who i thought was weird as fuck the first year he was there, because he didnt say shit, being a new student. Then during a lab class he was in my group of 3, and we found out that this kid was cool as fuck, and an ENTP. Then he became super popular, not "popular" like the dumb label, but "popular" as in, everybody liked him. We used to fukin just sit in the library and make up these hilarious scenarios and shit, and this kid had an overpowered intuition...good times.
I see it as a challenge almost to talk to these people, figuring out what they're all about, and i enjoy talking to them. I assume that this is why random people come up to me and talk to me, or make me their friend, even though i don't say much back. In high school i had a bad case of social anxiety, but I was still considered "cool"...I guess only an ENTP could play the "cool quiet kid" character...ALLITERATION
So ya, how do you act around these quiet and strangely interesting, anxious people? And have you ever helped them to open up? That was like, my main role in high school, to help the weird ass mutherfuckers become accepted haha.
Made me want to like, talk to her, make her laugh...but im a pretty anxious person myself, and really dont know how people see me. I assume people see me as how i see other quiet people. But you can tell if they are quiet and annoying as opposed to quiet, yet confident on the inside...somehow...Being quiet, but NOT being all weird and rebellious...ya....thats it.
Im thinking that you have introverts who are naturally quiet, and then extroverts who are quiet, but extroverted if you get to know them...I knew this kid in highschool who i thought was weird as fuck the first year he was there, because he didnt say shit, being a new student. Then during a lab class he was in my group of 3, and we found out that this kid was cool as fuck, and an ENTP. Then he became super popular, not "popular" like the dumb label, but "popular" as in, everybody liked him. We used to fukin just sit in the library and make up these hilarious scenarios and shit, and this kid had an overpowered intuition...good times.
I see it as a challenge almost to talk to these people, figuring out what they're all about, and i enjoy talking to them. I assume that this is why random people come up to me and talk to me, or make me their friend, even though i don't say much back. In high school i had a bad case of social anxiety, but I was still considered "cool"...I guess only an ENTP could play the "cool quiet kid" character...ALLITERATION
So ya, how do you act around these quiet and strangely interesting, anxious people? And have you ever helped them to open up? That was like, my main role in high school, to help the weird ass mutherfuckers become accepted haha.