1. I don't mean to an ISFP, I mean in general, how do you guys express affection to people? I mean romantic affection, that you like a man or a woman romantically, maybe want to spend more time with them? What if the person is shy and a bit awkward? And I mean when you are one on one, maybe walking around the city or in the forest or in a park or something, just talking. How would you indicate that you like him or her like that?
Wait, what? I don't think I understand the question. If I flirted and the person I flirted with didn't respond? Oh, honey, I love a good challenge2. If it was emotional and flirty behavior and he or she wouldn't respond (for example INTJs probably don't respond too well to that!), what would you do?
I get sweet and stop being all hard. I also call names and hit. Of course, I don't do so in a hurtful way, but rather, a playful way. I like to play :33. How do you prefer others to express affection to you?
1. I don't mean to an ISFP, I mean in general, how do you guys express affection to people? I mean romantic affection, that you like a man or a woman romantically, maybe want to spend more time with them? What if the person is shy and a bit awkward? And I mean when you are one on one, maybe walking around the city or in the forest or in a park or something, just talking. How would you indicate that you like him or her like that?
If I'm already dating the person, then just hand-holding and embracing her. If I'm interested in her, then I tend to be physically flirtatious - gentle pushing, ribbing, stuff like that. I also make sure that we're at a place where we can talk comfortably and privately.
2. If it was emotional and flirty behavior and he or she wouldn't respond (for example INTJs probably don't respond too well to that!), what would you do?
I'd probably ask what's wrong! I usually get SOME sort of response (even if it's just the person being irritated)! The only other answer is obviously depression. That or give up. Nonresponsiveness is not only not fun, but it also tends to indicate a lack of interest, so why bother?
3. How do you prefer others to express affection to you?
I like it when people mirror what I do or, if I'm mocking or picking at them, throw it back in my face. When people banter with me and don't take my shit standing down is when I tend to feel most comfortable. Also, being more physically intimate is definitely a plus! Cuddling and watching movies is great times. :3
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Examples would be totally amazing if possible! I thrive on examples!roud:
1. I don't mean to an ISFP, I mean in general, how do you guys express affection to people? I mean romantic affection, that you like a man or a woman romantically, maybe want to spend more time with them? What if the person is shy and a bit awkward? And I mean when you are one on one, maybe walking around the city or in the forest or in a park or something, just talking. How would you indicate that you like him or her like that?
Well, as stated before. I'll tell them that I am interested. Even INTJs get that. Although, funny story... It was my INTJ that pursued me and I was the one being dense lol. But don't worry! It's all Ok now XD2. If it was emotional and flirty behavior and he or she wouldn't respond (for example INTJs probably don't respond too well to that!), what would you do?
Check out this forum post. It delves into what your 'love language' is and it links to a test. I think you'll be very interested.3. How do you prefer others to express affection to you?
That forum post was interesting read. Thank you.Apparently, I always flirt without even realising it. However if I am interested in someone I will just simply tell them. I'm very social and prefer to be myself. So even with one on one time I'll just be me.
Well, as stated before. I'll tell them that I am interested. Even INTJs get that. Although, funny story... It was my INTJ that pursued me and I was the one being dense lol. But don't worry! It's all Ok now XD
Check out this forum post. It delves into what your 'love language' is and it links to a test. I think you'll be very interested.
My scores are;
5 Words of Affirmation
10 Quality Time
2 Receiving Gifts
3 Acts of Service
10 Physical Touch
And my INTJs scores are an exact match.