How do you get along with the other temperaments, in general? Agree with any of these?
NT: GOOD You would think NF's and NT's would have trouble getting over the emotional differences between the two, but strangely enough, I get along quite well with NT's. And I'm a moderately strong F type. I just trust them to the point where I know that their putdowns and sarcasm are all in good humor.
SP: FUN Really good drinking buddies or Friends with Benefits. I like their charisma and spontaneity. A few of the male SP's I know unintentionally piss other people off with their wild antics, but they know that I don't judge them for that because NFs can be just as crazy. Plus, I respect my SP friends for just wearing their emotions on their sleeves and not being afraid to be who they are, even though they will be judged by others. I'm still very much afraid of being judged by others, although this has been getting better. Female SPs I know are attractive, witty, and very artistic. One of them captured my heart with a very cleverly timed dick joke. No kidding.
NF: DEPENDS Ok, this one's a bit tricky because I really feel like I "connect" well with other female NFs, particularly the Introverted NFs. They are solid relationship material and even better conversationalists. My last 5 or so hookups were all with NFs and we are still solid friends. Now with male NFs, it can be a little tricky. I get along fabulously with introverted NFs. But Extravert NFs can and have tired me out. I don't know why.
SJ: POOR I cannot, for the life of me, understand these people. Not even to save my own life. I don't like my controlling SJ parents and it feels like a lot of SJs do things without really questioning why. Even if they don't like something or feel uncomfortable, they don't come out and say it because following norms and customs are far more important than expressing yourself, apparently. Rigid, is probably the word I'm going for. In relationship matters, I don't know how to explain this, but the SJ girls I've come across all seemed to be gold diggers. These are the girls who fight to climb the social ladder and date men they think are high up on the ladder. But it's only to help advance themselves further up that ladder. Yes, I don't approve of this. No, I shouldn't judge them too harshly. But I honestly don't mind that much anymore because I just stay away from them. I just haven't been able to figure them out. when it comes to male SJs, it's a mixed bag because I have good friends who are SJs and people I absolutely loath. I've never met an ESTJ I liked, for example, but get along quite well with ISFJs. Go figure.
oh, and the fact that I'm a dude might make it different for you if you're female. Just throwing that disclaimer in there :laughing: