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How do you guys stay so calm all the time

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Hello Type 9s,

I am a very anxious type 6 who really admires the healthy 9's ability to be calm and collected all the time. I wanna know, what is your guys' secret? How do you deal with stress? And what keeps you calm in stressful situation.

I am a way easier person to be around when less anxious, so yes, I want to learn from you guys. Many of you seem to have the answer (or multiple answers). So, how do you stay calm when stressed? I want to learn from you guys- you seem like great teachers.

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It probably has to do with which type of 9 someone is. I'm an INFJ, so I'm able to internalize via Ti and Ni and work most issues out on my own. It probably also helps that I've got Fe over Fi, as I tend to feel more strongly for others than myself, so even if I weren't a 9, I wouldn't be excessively angry/anxious/etc.

And I find that defeating hordes of Reapers in Mass Effect 3 at home after a rough day at work can be very cathartic and calming. ;o)
@nottie - FemShep! You are hereby awesome in my book! :proud:
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