Hello my Interestingly Noble & Fantastic People (INFP) I have a question....
When it comes to physical affection (Hand shakes, hugs, kisses and cuddles etc.) how far is too far when it comes to friends? I can be comfortable with a long hug from a guy-friend.... Maybe even a light cuddle (don't judge me!) but that's as far as I will take it. What about you? How far or how much physical affection do you like/need? And what type of displays of physical affection do you prefer? Let's discuss!
LOL I could go for a little male/male cuddling. I mean, so long as I'm the big spoon. On the real though too far for me is when affection turns sexual. It's got to be appropriate, ya know?
Why the hell would you 'cuddle' a friend of the opposite sex? That's just really anti-climactic
Hugs are usually the limit for me, I'd be a bit put off if someone told me to back off after just a hug
Call me a greasy male chauvanist pig or whatever, but I would honestly never cuddle a girl if it wasn't likely to lead to something else. I'd just feel like a fucking chew toy
Interest fact for the day!: Chauvinist can apply to all genders, or sex. It was more commonly acceptable to call somebody a chauvinist for blind patriotism and belief in inherent superiority over others.
To answer your question, cuddling =/= sexual expectation for me. I honestly don't expect anything to go further, and physical contact isn't cause enough for me to really pursue anything beyond. I can *cough* perform *cough* if needed too, but that feels like dead weight most of the time even if it is pleasurable for the opposite party. I do it simply because it's nice to have a little human heater next to me at night when I'm sleeping.