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Hello lovely INFP's, I thought I would let you allin on how I act and behave with all the different MBTI types. I created thislist so that I wouldn't be awkward around people. It wasn't so muchthat I didn't have any confidence or self-worth, it was that I just didn'tknow how to be myself and relax around different people you find in college. I know mostpeople would say I should just 'be myself' around people, but thatdoesn't always necessarily work. In college you are always going tobe thrown or paired up with someone you aren't always sure you aregoing to find it easy to get on with and I myself KNOW from experience Ialways kick myself if I don't have good interaction with someone.
I never want to be the guy who people thought'Yeah he was cool but quiet, etc' I want them to really like me, findme funny and want to be around me. I am sick and tired of those flatmonotone conversations which always seem to go 'Hey, are you youalright?' 'Yeah, I'm fine, you?', 'Yeah I'm not too bad, you?' 'Yeahnot too bad, what you been up to?' 'Not much... you?' GAAAHHH, I freakin hatethose conversations so much. They just seem to be so pointless, butcoming from a young slim INFP male writer, conversations can bereally hard to do when you want special relationships. I can even have trouble knowing what to say to people I have known for years and years. So this is theway I like to act in front of every type. It helps me a lot and Ihope no-one is offended by it. :happy:
With INTJ- Inquisitive, child-like, bubbly
With ISFJ- Commanding, authoritative, protective
With ENTJ- Seductive and funny
With ISTP- Funny, witty and protective
With INFP- Eccentric and honest
With ESTP- Complimentary and funny
With ENFP- Mature, jaded but fun
With INFJ- Inquisitive and forward
With ISTJ- Agreeable, kind and fun
With ENFJ- Forward and driven
With ESTJ- Righteous, child-like, talkative
With INTP- Witty, flirtatious and fun
With ISFP- Fearless, smart and fun
With ENTP- Fun and ironic
With ESFP- Flippant and sensitive
I like to act this way so I can not only relate tothem, but be able to relax and not feel like I'm being boring oranything. I hate awkwardness with a passion but the problem being Idon't know HOW to not be awkward most of the time. I find if I canmake the conversation fun by trying to relate to them, but indifferent ways to each of them, I can get along and have fluid, fun,fulfilling, fantastical conversations/ interactions with literally any type andnot be afraid of talking to anyone. I can kind of be someone else infront of every person, which makes it fun. I like to be able to laughand relax not stressing over what to say next.
I picked adjectives for each type that I canaccess. If I put something like 'loud and crazy' or 'quiet and logical',I couldn't do it because that isn't me. All of the ajectives listedare me in some way or another, it's just knowing which part of you toaccess in order to get on with someone. I hope one day I won't haveto keep checking the sheet of paper I've written it down on and justknow it all off by heart. I bet most people know exactly how to interactwith different people and most are aware of the huge differencesbetween everyone. I would suggest for anyone going through socialanxiety to get a piece of paper, sit down and type everyone you know.Then use your imagination to work out how you feel comfortabledealing with each type in the MBTI.
Hope it helps. :happy:
I never want to be the guy who people thought'Yeah he was cool but quiet, etc' I want them to really like me, findme funny and want to be around me. I am sick and tired of those flatmonotone conversations which always seem to go 'Hey, are you youalright?' 'Yeah, I'm fine, you?', 'Yeah I'm not too bad, you?' 'Yeahnot too bad, what you been up to?' 'Not much... you?' GAAAHHH, I freakin hatethose conversations so much. They just seem to be so pointless, butcoming from a young slim INFP male writer, conversations can bereally hard to do when you want special relationships. I can even have trouble knowing what to say to people I have known for years and years. So this is theway I like to act in front of every type. It helps me a lot and Ihope no-one is offended by it. :happy:
With INTJ- Inquisitive, child-like, bubbly
With ISFJ- Commanding, authoritative, protective
With ENTJ- Seductive and funny
With ISTP- Funny, witty and protective
With INFP- Eccentric and honest
With ESTP- Complimentary and funny
With ENFP- Mature, jaded but fun
With INFJ- Inquisitive and forward
With ISTJ- Agreeable, kind and fun
With ENFJ- Forward and driven
With ESTJ- Righteous, child-like, talkative
With INTP- Witty, flirtatious and fun
With ISFP- Fearless, smart and fun
With ENTP- Fun and ironic
With ESFP- Flippant and sensitive
I like to act this way so I can not only relate tothem, but be able to relax and not feel like I'm being boring oranything. I hate awkwardness with a passion but the problem being Idon't know HOW to not be awkward most of the time. I find if I canmake the conversation fun by trying to relate to them, but indifferent ways to each of them, I can get along and have fluid, fun,fulfilling, fantastical conversations/ interactions with literally any type andnot be afraid of talking to anyone. I can kind of be someone else infront of every person, which makes it fun. I like to be able to laughand relax not stressing over what to say next.
I picked adjectives for each type that I canaccess. If I put something like 'loud and crazy' or 'quiet and logical',I couldn't do it because that isn't me. All of the ajectives listedare me in some way or another, it's just knowing which part of you toaccess in order to get on with someone. I hope one day I won't haveto keep checking the sheet of paper I've written it down on and justknow it all off by heart. I bet most people know exactly how to interactwith different people and most are aware of the huge differencesbetween everyone. I would suggest for anyone going through socialanxiety to get a piece of paper, sit down and type everyone you know.Then use your imagination to work out how you feel comfortabledealing with each type in the MBTI.
Hope it helps. :happy: