Well it matters upon first sight of a woman, but if there isn't a great personality to back it up then it doesn't mean shit. "Superficially" I'm most attracted to tall women with big hips and a big butt (but not fat or flabby). Well my gf is none of that actually. But I have such an emotional connection to her and love her personality, so she turns me on. She's 20 years older than me (62), and she looks her age, and doesn't even have the "sexiest" voice. But often just from hearing her voice and hearing the things she says on the phone I get tingly sensations down there. She's incredibly witty and funny, she has a strong conscience, and she has an incredible amount of empathy for people, and she loves me just the way I am and finds me attractive. She has great thighs too. Lol! I love women's legs.