I told him. He told me it’s totally okay, he Ni’ed me while I was taking time (lol!), and not to be so hard on myself.Just let him know just what you told me. While we can read emotions, we can’t always read/know what causes them. So let him know. He will understand and be even more understanding the next time a situation like this occurs.I forget how different we can be. It's such a learning process.
me - needs alone time, calm, needs quiet/silence, introverted
him - needs people time, high-energy, bouncy ball, won't ever stop talking i wonder if he breathes sometimes <img src="http://personalitycafe.com/images/smilies/1/laughing.gif" border="0" alt="" title="Laughing" class="inlineimg" />
I think my problem is all my past fears are kicking up, and it's making me shut down. But I'm trying to learn to stay in it and through the fear. I feel like such a jerk for not communicating I needed space, but I couldn't help it-- I honestly thought I was getting messed with emotionally.
Thanks for your help.
When we’re in love with you, we can be quite selfless. We will put your needs before our own, even to our own detriment. You know that an ESFP truly loves you when he chooses you over himself. (^_^
Basically we’re over that hiccup. I feel like everything is stabilizing now (thank god 😂).
Navigating this has been such a learning process. Ugh ESFP steals my heart.