POLARbearEXPRESS - hello again, I apologize, I likely missed your meaning of 'sneaky' in your initial post. I am kind of coming along here. I was just putting out some thoughts that came about immediately in my mind, and sharing. Certainly I can see that happening for sure. I had a friend who knew me for over 10 years, and still said to me occasionally," wow, I never knew that about you?!".
It kind of felt good when she said that. Like I have something special about me or something. Or likely I realized, she spends a lot of time focusing on her and her problems, instead of on me. And honestly I rarely offer information about myself, unless it is asked for. Or if I feel by sharing stuff about myself, another person can give me another perspective or assist me through a problem. So sure I kind of get your initial post. I'm not calling you sneaky or anything in a bad way! I was just putting out further thoughts.
Please elaborate on what you mean by sneakiness if you like. I likely have a cloud in my mind today, and may just be 'missing it'. Maybe an example.
Good topic, I don't think I've seen this one before