So what are some other good conversation topics? I don't really mind debating things and I like topics that would make the both of us thinkI've always had trouble relating to ESFJs at all. I guess I feel like they're usually self-absorbed, and they think that they're always helping people when in reality they often just ignore what people actually need/want/say. The one thing I'd want from an ESFJ more than anything is acceptance and patience. I think for an ESFJ to really get along with an ENTP, they need to be willing to actually pay attention to the ENTP's crazy random interests and ideas, and be genuine with their compliments rather than generic. I think I wouldn't want the ESFJ to try too hard to make me like them, but rather I'd want them to try to find common ground between us and understand me on a deeper level. ENTPs value intimacy very highly, especially intellectual intimacy and shared values. We hate any form of generic conversation, whether it's talking about the weather or asking us predictable questions about our family. We want depth.
Basically, be vulnerable, be honest, and don't afraid to be a little blunt. You cannot possibly hurt our feelings by saying something tactless, so be as crazy and out there as is comfortable. Ask really weird and interesting questions, like, "Have you ever thought about taking over the world?" Encourage us to talk a lot (shouldn't be hard). Be adventurous. Surprise us. Be interesting and unique. Don't be afraid to call us out on our bullshit or teach us something new.
Literally anything; politics or his zombie apocalypse plan. We like to be challenged because it is so difficult to overpower us intellectually. Personally I thrive when I debate or argue.So what are some other good conversation topics? I don't really mind debating things and I like topics that would make the both of us think