I can be soft but at times hard towards people in general.
However, I find that sometimes I tend to pamper my loved ones (a select few I hold dearest to my heart) too much. I do guide and advice them, but there are also times when I chose to overlook their flaws simply because I didn't want to hurt their feelings.
At times, I can be selfish with them yes, but I feel that I always see the good in them before the bad, to an almost overly idealized irrational point.
How do I get better at it? I'm just scared that if I get tougher on them, they might get hurt instead. I don't know. I'm weird.
However, I find that sometimes I tend to pamper my loved ones (a select few I hold dearest to my heart) too much. I do guide and advice them, but there are also times when I chose to overlook their flaws simply because I didn't want to hurt their feelings.
At times, I can be selfish with them yes, but I feel that I always see the good in them before the bad, to an almost overly idealized irrational point.
How do I get better at it? I'm just scared that if I get tougher on them, they might get hurt instead. I don't know. I'm weird.