My guy told me that people would often wonder why he never really dated. He was always single and just "hanging out". He has told me this before, and it just seems like it has to do more with him not knowing what HE wanted. ESFP people in my opinion, are just people lovers. When they love everyone the question aroses when there is that ONE person they have feelings for..., How do I show I like them differently from others?When I'm really, really interested in someone, I can get really shy! It's really a problem for me. So then I will flirt with everyone except that person who I really desire. Its' weird.
And also, I always think that people like introvert, shy and cute girls, so whenever I'm interested in someone I will automatically try to behave like that... oh gosh
flirting is much harder when you have feelings for the person