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Dear ESFJs,

i would like to know how can i make my ESFJ male friend feel better. i wasn't expecting him to.. but a couple of days ago, he confessed to me.. we both have mutual feelings towards each other, however i am attached and i can't break the commitment. My heart breaks to see him dissapointed and upset with me, very much that i want to text him but i'm not sure if it will hurt him even more. He kept appearing to be fine, we still exchanged a few texts.. Can i still text him or should i just leave him alone? :th_sad:
 

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I would try to distance yourself from him so he has some time to recover from the disappointment. No one likes to be led on. Just to make sure he isn't confused and hurt though, I would send him a message saying that while you really care for him and value his friendship, you can't break your commitment right now, and you're going to give both of you some time.
 
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