How do you write a love letter to an INTJ?
Do ya'll do love letters?
How do you write a love letter to an INTJ?
i've never had one, as far as i can recall anyway. so either i've never had one, or it was so non-event-ish to me it dropped out of my mind. on the other hand, i have had people say things to me, in email or in person, that have stayed in my mind forever. it's all about the person and the relationship though. i think i'd be uncomfortable getting something like that from someone whose feelings i wasn't down with.Do ya'll do love letters?
I wouldn't want anything that was gushy/mushy or stereotypical things that people think "should" go into a love letter or even that they are giving me a love letter because it's what a guy is "supposed to do".
and this. there's one love letter i'm kind of sorry i never got now. the guy wrote it and said he 'left it in pieces in the ashtray at some greyhound station' but when he told me about it awhile later, he said 'it might have been a catalogue of you, but it was heartfelt'. said he knew he couldn't/shouldn't send it. and he was right, so i'm not sorry he shredded it. but something like that i think i would have read.I'd say be genuine and specific...that is how you write a love letter to (this) INTJ.
Naww, love letters are cute! Just don't expect a gushy response lol. In fact don't expect much of a response at all.
If it's their heart your trying to win, then one on one witty banter followed up by intellectual conversation that gets their Ni juices flowing ought to suffice.They love Ne... it's like candy for their minds.
If it's a feeling response you're trying to get out of them, then realise Fi being pounded by Ni-Te doesn't allow them to simply express their 'feels'. There are... other ways of getting how they feel about you out of them...
Ok...so ENTPs are similar with the whole mushy stuff. It would be [somewhat] like this:
Hey!
I just wanted you to know that you're the most intelligent being I am currently aware of. Your ability to sit still and find all the holes in my crazy ideas is amazing, and I couldn't enjoy your company more! I quite enjoy it when you actually sit and listen through my insane trend-searching, and meeting you kinda made me more of a person, as I tended to be more shallow and couldn't stick around with one person before I met you. I guess I'm making this too much about me, but I just wanted to say you're a great person, and you should be more confident in your interactions with others. They could learn something from you, and I could do well with a world more of people like you.
Anyways, I guess I'm just trying to say that I love being around you, and (I think...I never know with this whole "love" stuff) that I like you.
your best friend,
me
How do you write a love letter to an INTJ?
Do ya'll do love letters?
Great! I am the thankful for the advices. One more question:
How do you siphon the feels out of INTJ?