This is a good question, thus I will do a YouTube Video on it.How do you write a love letter to an INTJ?
Do ya'll do love letters?
you're thinking of writing one, aren'tcha?How do you write a love letter to an INTJ?
i've never had one, as far as i can recall anyway. so either i've never had one, or it was so non-event-ish to me it dropped out of my mind. on the other hand, i have had people say things to me, in email or in person, that have stayed in my mind forever. it's all about the person and the relationship though. i think i'd be uncomfortable getting something like that from someone whose feelings i wasn't down with.Do ya'll do love letters?
yes, this.I wouldn't want anything that was gushy/mushy or stereotypical things that people think "should" go into a love letter or even that they are giving me a love letter because it's what a guy is "supposed to do".
and this. there's one love letter i'm kind of sorry i never got now. the guy wrote it and said he 'left it in pieces in the ashtray at some greyhound station' but when he told me about it awhile later, he said 'it might have been a catalogue of you, but it was heartfelt'. said he knew he couldn't/shouldn't send it. and he was right, so i'm not sorry he shredded it. but something like that i think i would have read.I'd say be genuine and specific...that is how you write a love letter to (this) INTJ.
Naww, love letters are cute! Just don't expect a gushy response lol. In fact don't expect much of a response at all.
If it's their heart your trying to win, then one on one witty banter followed up by intellectual conversation that gets their Ni juices flowing ought to suffice.They love Ne... it's like candy for their minds.
If it's a feeling response you're trying to get out of them, then realise Fi being pounded by Ni-Te doesn't allow them to simply express their 'feels'. There are... other ways of getting how they feel about you out of them...
Yeah, something like this is along the right lines...though, has this INTJ verbally expressed to you that they feel not confident with interacting with others? Because I feel like that's something people "read" into me that I don't feel is actually true for myself...so you don't want to be making assumptions about how an INTJ feels, what they should do, etc. I know that was just an example and I don't know the nature of the relationship and things that have been discussed ..but that little piece stuck out to me as something that would irk me if I got that lol especially from an "E" of course, if they have verbally expressed that...that's different. But yes, irrelavent details I'm getting into...a letter like the one you gave as an example is basically it, yeah.Ok...so ENTPs are similar with the whole mushy stuff. It would be [somewhat] like this:
I just wanted you to know that you're the most intelligent being I am currently aware of. Your ability to sit still and find all the holes in my crazy ideas is amazing, and I couldn't enjoy your company more! I quite enjoy it when you actually sit and listen through my insane trend-searching, and meeting you kinda made me more of a person, as I tended to be more shallow and couldn't stick around with one person before I met you. I guess I'm making this too much about me, but I just wanted to say you're a great person, and you should be more confident in your interactions with others. They could learn something from you, and I could do well with a world more of people like you.
Anyways, I guess I'm just trying to say that I love being around you, and (I think...I never know with this whole "love" stuff) that I like you.
your best friend,
I've been surprised at how much letters can mean to me. Not necessarily romantically, but I do feel attached to people's words to me.How do you write a love letter to an INTJ?
Do ya'll do love letters?
oh dude. we can't tell you that. not being flip here either, although maybe someone else would. but it's not right to set your unknown intj up with a whole bunch of insider-kryptonite moves that you got off a bunch of strangers. i think if you really honour her, you'd be better off in the long run just being you and taking your chances with that.Great! I am the thankful for the advices. One more question:
How do you siphon the feels out of INTJ?