Half of this thread of full of losers who think being anti-social and shy is a shared trait among INTJ's.
I'm not an ENFP and I also think that the one person calling other people losers usually deserves the honor.
I for one am not anti-social. In fact that's one of the misconceptions about INTJs imo. I like (nice) people. I just can't handle them in large groups, what often makes other people think
I'm anti-social (or even shy for that matter).
All the INTJ's I know are just the opposite.
Maybe because they aren't INTJs and only think so because they fit the arrogant and intelligent stereotype?
To be honest, I cannot relate to most of the things you wrote. I don't really like eye contact, I don't brag or enjoy attention/admiration, I don't want to get to know only people that are really talented at something.
But then again, people can be very different even if they share the same type. You just shouldn't call different people losers - not very INTJish imo.