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How to Spot One of You Guys in a Crowd

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The title basically says it all.

How can an ENFP like me differentiate one of you guys from the rest? Do you guys typically have a thing you guys do, or something? I've only ever met one INTJ in my life so far (that I know of), and they seem pretty cool.

I guess my question is, in social settings, where can I find you guys? Who do you typically hang out with (personality type wise)? What do you usually talk about? What topics of conversation do you avoid? Are you quiet, or is that just a stereotype?

Any and all thoughts appreciated! :D
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Uhh... ways to differentiate INTJs (Or just me in particular, which may apply to other INTJs) from other people:

I'm either glaring or looking like I'm pissed off/sad when I'm not... this usually only happens when I'm not in a conversation with someone.

On days where teachers allow free time, I'm working while everyone else is socializing.

I'll be looking at the crowd.

My great sense of style.

Look for the person who doesn't want to be there.

Look for the person who is just standing in the crowd observing people but not actually participating in it.

I don't really know how else. I haven't been in many crowds in my lifetime, so...
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