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How to Spot One of You Guys in a Crowd

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The title basically says it all.

How can an ENFP like me differentiate one of you guys from the rest? Do you guys typically have a thing you guys do, or something? I've only ever met one INTJ in my life so far (that I know of), and they seem pretty cool.

I guess my question is, in social settings, where can I find you guys? Who do you typically hang out with (personality type wise)? What do you usually talk about? What topics of conversation do you avoid? Are you quiet, or is that just a stereotype?

Any and all thoughts appreciated! :D
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How to Spot One of You Guys in a Crowd
I do a lot to fade into the background and avoid any attention or interest from anyone (when shopping, for example). People seem to rely heavily on unconscious instinctive and emotional behaviors when in a crowd. I find it mostly disgusting and pathetic but also a little dangerous. The zombies could mob and lynch at any moment.

I have on occasion recognized others using a similar [avoidance] tactic. So I guess even in this situation it is possible to spot one of us in a crowd.
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