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How to stop myself from thinking about sex?

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It has been one of those days where my brain has decided to think about sex nonstop and decided to do so via conscious thought instead of sub-conscious level where I can ignore it. I know some of you are thinking why. One reason it's a bit annoying when later I realized I have wasted an entire day on something that has been known to either make me depressed, do something stupid, or cause me other problems. Don't get me wrong I am not against sex at all. And I am not one of those wannabe players who tries going around using women. I just don't really have the best means to deal with these string of thoughts right now. And would prefer to think about things that can actually be dealt with instead of something impossible to deal with without going to extreme lengths I promised myself I wouldn't do again.


Actually that rant did help a bit. Any ideas because this does happen every once in a while. More so when I am not depressed or feeling healthy.

Feel free to rant as well. No point in just reading mine:laughing:
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It has been one of those days where my brain has decided to think about sex nonstop and decided to do so via conscious thought instead of sub-conscious level where I can ignore it. I know some of you are thinking why. One reason it's a bit annoying when later I realized I have wasted an entire day on something that has been known to either make me depressed, do something stupid, or cause me other problems. Don't get me wrong I am not against sex at all. And I am not one of those wannabe players who tries going around using women. I just don't really have the best means to deal with these string of thoughts right now. And would prefer to think about things that can actually be dealt with instead of something impossible to deal with without going to extreme lengths I promised myself I wouldn't do again.


Actually that rant did help a bit. Any ideas because this does happen every once in a while. More so when I am not depressed or feeling healthy.

Feel free to rant as well. No point in just reading mine:laughing:
You probably aren't getting any at this point at life then. Well, the answer is simple: Go and get some sex. It's just like if you are hungry, you tummy will growl. Once you eat, your stomach stops growling.
You probably aren't getting any at this point at life then. Well, the answer is simple: Go and get some sex. It's just like if you are hungry, you tummy will growl. Once you eat, your stomach stops growling.
I know that. The only means of me having sex is by getting a prostitute. Which I refuse to do hence why this problem exist in the first place. I guess I should of made that more clearer.
[puts on terrible french accent]... dis is impossiball no?
[puts on terrible french accent]... dis is impossiball no?
[uses his slightly ok peppi la pu( cant spell his name) impression] Que Que
I think you should go and see a doctor, because it may be a hormonal imbalance or something. If this keeps recurring, and you think it's a problem.
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Dude is horny and should see a doctor?
I think you should go and see a doctor, because it may be a hormonal imbalance or something. If this keeps recurring, and you think it's a problem.
I think that I have this condition.....

Main Entry: sa·ty·ri·a·sis
Pronunciation: \ˌsā-tə-ˈrī-ə-səs, ˌsa-\
Function: noun
Etymology: Late Latin, from Greek, from satyros
Date: 15th century
: excessive or abnormal sexual craving in the male

I'm not kidding. I'm dead ass serious. I think that I have it.
Dude is horny and should see a doctor?
If he is thinking about sex all day and cannot stop doing so, then there is likely to be some sort of problem.
I think that I have this condition.....

Main Entry: sa·ty·ri·a·sis
Pronunciation: \ˌsā-tə-ˈrī-ə-səs, ˌsa-\
Function: noun
Etymology: Late Latin, from Greek, from satyros
Date: 15th century
: excessive or abnormal sexual craving in the male

I'm not kidding. I'm dead ass serious. I think that I have it.
Have you tried to get it treated and/or controlled?
I think you should go and see a doctor, because it may be a hormonal imbalance or something. If this keeps recurring, and you think it's a problem.
I tend to avoid the doctors. There still after a piece of my liver because I rarely drink and I show signs of liver damage. The hormonal imbalance would seem to be the case if a sense of loneliness and years of sexual frustrations building up wasn't in the equation.
Have you tried to get it treated and/or controlled?
No not really
I think that I have this condition.....

Main Entry: sa·ty·ri·a·sis
Pronunciation: \ˌsā-tə-ˈrī-ə-səs, ˌsa-\
Function: noun
Etymology: Late Latin, from Greek, from satyros
Date: 15th century
: excessive or abnormal sexual craving in the male

I'm not kidding. I'm dead ass serious. I think that I have it.
I don't think my problem is to that extent. I think mine more from a psychological reaction due to the anxiety from my past experience and lack of experience I have had with sex plus my inability to forgive myself for such a past coming to be. Also some of my attempts to suppress some of my sex drive also added to this. But I fear that my if some one I know or others found out I have a high sex drive that they will get the wrong idea that I am only out to get laid in life (my one friend already assumes this and it pisses me off). I guess the only thing I can do is try to figure out to think about sex without it dominating all my thoughts or making me depressed. Depressed one I am more worried about. Thank you all. Not sure why I didn't think of this earlier. Oh wait nvm:laughing::laughing::laughing::crazy:
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If you can think about sex all day the the point of distraction you probably need to occupy your thoughts with something else, if it distresses you. Take up some new subject that occupies at least a few of those spare cycles.
Since this thread has been dead for a while and I have been down in the dumps a bit. I thought I will post something to see if anyone can think of anything since thoughts about sex and relationships seem to be bothering me again lately. That and boredom:laughing:. In all seriousness though I do need to find a way to suppress or block any thoughts about sex and relationships.
put an ice pack ....
no seriusly, I have a few ideas.
- pleasing your self, you probably already tryed that one... but if you did it just once, sometimes one time is not enough....
- diversify your activities, brake your routine.
- go out take a walk, go at the parc, the mall. (maybe put on loose pants and a long shirt ...) this is to change your mind off sex but if you can't at least you're prepered....
- watch a movie that has lots of action.
- read a book that is scientific or that talks about psychology.
- dance and/or sing (at home, not in the parc or the mall... hehe ) go wild a bit.

good luck!
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Seriously dude...nothing wrong with pleasing yourself if you need to. Its like doing something nice for yourself: you may feel bad about it, but it prevents most of us from going crazy.

Or more crazy in PerC's case.:tongue:
KY or...

keep a picture of your mother/father in front of you at all times, hehehe
KY or...

keep a picture of your mother/father in front of you at all times, hehehe
Yeah, I was about to say... think about your grandma or something.
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