oh yeah.. ill tense up a little, although if i find the person attractive obviously they are an instant hug target roud:I guess I'm atypical in this aspect of ENFPness.:crazy: I tense up when hugged unless I know the person really really well.
semi-serious answer: I love givin em! it's like *hug hug hug the boys are maaarching!*is there a such thing as liking hugs too much??
i feel like i like hugs an unnatural amount.. roud:
It makes perfect sense - this is exactly why I don't like hugs from random people, or even people I'm friends with. Anyone who hugs me (properly, not just some meaningless half second hug for the sake of social protocol) gets behind my shield. I don't have any defences behind that shield, so no one gets to hug me unless I trust them completely. And then probably not if they're a guy simply cause that's kinda awkward.I'm (perhaps) a weird ENFP in that I don't really like hugs. They can be awkward, first of all, but also, it just feels too intimate. I feel like physically touching brings about a level of intimacy I'm not positive I want to share with you for awhile.
I never really considered it, but I feel like, by hugging me, I've shared a special part of myself, and frankly, not everyone deserves it. I must be careful who I give those pieces to, you know?
Idk if that even makes sense.
Love hugs. I tend to hug people in a business environment! It's just what I do!!! Creates awkwardness when I realize some of my superiors are there too, they only get a handshake, and then they feel slightly offended?
I am a pretty tight/firm hugger. Not necessarily in the sense of "pressing in" but definitely in the sense of a firm grip Hug right or go home No wimpy hugs.
OMG thank you thank you thank you! I like my hugs firm. Just like a firm handshake is good so is the same with a hug. Those are my favorites. Can you give me a hug?