[Tridentus]

is there a such thing as liking hugs too much??

i feel like i like hugs an unnatural amount.. roud:

semi-serious question.

 

[mistersir]

All the ENFPs I've ever met have loved hugs. It's their way of saying hello rather than shaking hands or saying hi.

 

[Essay]

I dunno. I was always more of a kiss-on-the-cheek kind of guy.

 

[ikky36]

I love the feel of a squishy person I'm my arms. I also love lifting not so squishy ones in the air hugging. All sizes of people have their hugging benefits and it's wicked fun! I don't hug nearly as much as I like to haha, as I found a lot of people have 'personal space.' Psh:crazy:

 

[ApolloNoUta]

I like hugs if I know and like the person, or if it seems like someone trustworthy and not creepy. Everyone else, I tend to want to keep my personal space.

 

[Linnifae]

I guess I'm atypical in this aspect of ENFPness.:crazy: I tense up when hugged unless I know the person really really well.

 

[Tridentus]

I guess I'm atypical in this aspect of ENFPness.:crazy: I tense up when hugged unless I know the person really really well.

oh yeah.. ill tense up a little, although if i find the person attractive obviously they are an instant hug target roud:

it's a good tool to bond with new people too..

 

[kaycee]

I'm (perhaps) a weird ENFP in that I don't really like hugs. They can be awkward, first of all, but also, it just feels too intimate. I feel like physically touching brings about a level of intimacy I'm not positive I want to share with you for awhile.

I never really considered it, but I feel like, by hugging me, I've shared a special part of myself, and frankly, not everyone deserves it. I must be careful who I give those pieces to, you know?

Idk if that even makes sense.

 

[ikky36]

I've hugged a Klingon before. I can get some of the fiercest warriors in the universe to give me a hug. I guess I'm like a jedi master of happy go lucky.

 

[StevieRay]

I like hugs but only share them with few people... So I love the touch but it feels fake if it is from someone that doesn't care

 

[NightSkyGirl]

Is there such a thing as an ENFP that doesn't like hugs?

 

[The Proof]

is there a such thing as liking hugs too much??

i feel like i like hugs an unnatural amount.. roud:

semi-serious question.

semi-serious answer: I love givin em! it's like *hug hug hug the boys are maaarching!*

I wish I could hug more people, sometimes they get scared

I think it's because I was a recluse for a long time and now I want human contact :happy:

 

[Lullaby]

I love hugs! I really really enjoy both giving and receiving random hugs for no reason. I love hugging tall people. <3 And my favourite kind of hug is where the other person (male probably) picks me up and sometimes even spins me around. Makes me feel very special and loved. ^^

When I'm upset, though, hugs usually make me feel even worse. When I'm sad/angry, I don't like people touching me, it makes me cry. >.>

 

[Atenza Coltheart]

I love hugging. Everyone

 

[The King Of Dreams]

I dunno. I was always more of a kiss-on-the-cheek kind of guy.

Even from guys? LOL
I don't judge by the way. I'll try stuff.

 

[Sanskrit]

I always have this unclean feeling from hugs. So I don't do them much, the feeling lingers and makes me wanna wash it off.
Also it insinuates a social contract of caring and sharing. Ew.

@The King Of Dreams: I see you changed the font roud: Awesome!

 

[rednet2]

I'm (perhaps) a weird ENFP in that I don't really like hugs. They can be awkward, first of all, but also, it just feels too intimate. I feel like physically touching brings about a level of intimacy I'm not positive I want to share with you for awhile.

I never really considered it, but I feel like, by hugging me, I've shared a special part of myself, and frankly, not everyone deserves it. I must be careful who I give those pieces to, you know?

Idk if that even makes sense.

It makes perfect sense - this is exactly why I don't like hugs from random people, or even people I'm friends with. Anyone who hugs me (properly, not just some meaningless half second hug for the sake of social protocol) gets behind my shield. I don't have any defences behind that shield, so no one gets to hug me unless I trust them completely. And then probably not if they're a guy simply cause that's kinda awkward.
If I do decided to let them in though...

 

[chinotto]

Love hugs. I tend to hug people in a business environment! It's just what I do!!! Creates awkwardness when I realize some of my superiors are there too, they only get a handshake, and then they feel slightly offended?

I am a pretty tight/firm hugger. Not necessarily in the sense of "pressing in" but definitely in the sense of a firm grip Hug right or go home No wimpy hugs.

 

[The King Of Dreams]

Love hugs. I tend to hug people in a business environment! It's just what I do!!! Creates awkwardness when I realize some of my superiors are there too, they only get a handshake, and then they feel slightly offended?

I am a pretty tight/firm hugger. Not necessarily in the sense of "pressing in" but definitely in the sense of a firm grip Hug right or go home No wimpy hugs.

OMG thank you thank you thank you! I like my hugs firm. Just like a firm handshake is good so is the same with a hug. Those are my favorites. Can you give me a hug?

 

[chinotto]

OMG thank you thank you thank you! I like my hugs firm. Just like a firm handshake is good so is the same with a hug. Those are my favorites. Can you give me a hug?

Keep giving out good ones -- you'll get some good ones back!!!

And yes --- firm handshake, firm hug!