This is why I avoid people who have sex just for the purpose of getting off. Thats the biggest turn off in the world.Even when I was 19/20 I was considered 'behind' in terms of sexual experience. The guy I was with had no interest in teaching me anything. He was frustrated and just wanted to get off. He had been having sex since his very early teens. And so had most of the girls.
From what I've observed, it seems that people who put a premium on sex in a relationship are those who welcome/need an experienced partner. Also those who have/have had a lot of sex for pure pleasure also want this. I knew an ENTP that would basically fill out a damn score card based on how you had sex. He would go through and pick out what could have been better, or what was good, or what he's had that was better. It was so mechanical that I thought it was the most repulsive thing in the world.It's been my experience that men welcome women with more sexual experience. We all have something to learn , right ? I've also experienced the flip side of that. Depending on the size of ego some men will do what they've always done and expect different results. I do think some men are bothered by that causing them to become insecure with their abilities/know how etc.