I find ENFJs have a certain kind of logic to their emotions that, well from the experience with one that I know, when he doesn't something I don't always understand it at first, so I'll ask him about it and when he explains it, it makes perfect sense, so I guess that's what I meant.How does our emotional logic work?
Uh, we care about other people more than ourselves most of the time... We usually have very strong emotions, akin to someone having a very strong opinion.... despite that, we're not confrontational people, at least not with our own problems cause we dislike disharmony.
Uh... what else... I don't know how to contribute...
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@dulcinea , aren't you supposed to be INFP? Why didn't I get a memo of the type change :3
From my limited experience (and like I say, the one you know might be really different) I find the one I know is intensely emotional, but he also has a lot of self-control. At first sometimes, he might seem cold and calculated, but I guess I read between the lines with him a lot too. I find a lot of the intensity of his emotionality comes out when I need his help or ask him a favor and he does something with this attitude, like "I feel honored to do this for you." He gets really really excited about helping the people in his life and doing things for them.how does their emotional logic work??? haha
I have a feeling my ENFJ is capable of so much emotion...and sometimes times I'm thinking maybe I just want to think that, because he really hasn't shown that....
i know how you feel - i was mistyped...twice! INTP and ENTP before i realized i am an Fi user instead of Ti and Fe user, and noticed i have manifestations of inferior Te function. And that good old Ne/Si dual in me lolI find ENFJs have a certain kind of logic to their emotions that, well from the experience with one that I know, when he doesn't something I don't always understand it at first, so I'll ask him about it and when he explains it, it makes perfect sense, so I guess that's what I meant.
Yeah, I was mistyped. I went by MBTI quizzes that were a bit misleading, but deep introspection along with every JCF test I've ever taken told me that I don't use Fi all that much, so then I thought maybe I'm just an INFp according to socionomics theory. It wasn't until really understood how judging vs. perceiving works that I realized that I do lean towards judging preference, just a "judger" with a slightly messy desk. But the CF's all lean towards INFJ I use Ti quite a bit and I prefer Ni and Fe to Fi and Ne. I think I actually use Ni Fe and Ti pretty evenly but it depends on the occasion.
It's so embarrassing to think of my old posts that were like, "As an INFP I know blah blah blah!" I really wanted to be an INFP too. It threw me back a little when I had to admit that I'm really not. You know, I still get thanks for my post on the thread "+30 INFPs advice to younger INFPs" I guess it was still applicable, lol.
O...kay...Every time, but every f*cking time a guy start flirting with me, I think he just wants sex. Generally, that's my opinion about every man.
I know. I was just kidding around.Well, I obviously realized the topic in the wrong way. Regards
So what if he does? Sex is fun. RelaxEvery time, but every f*cking time a guy start flirting with me, I think he just wants sex. Generally, that's my opinion about every man.
Couldn't have said it any better myself.How does our emotional logic work?
Uh, we care about other people more than ourselves most of the time... We usually have very strong emotions, akin to someone having a very strong opinion.... despite that, we're not confrontational people, at least not with our own problems cause we dislike disharmony.
Uh... what else... I don't know how to contribute...
P.S.
@dulcinea, aren't you supposed to be INFP? Why didn't I get a memo of the type change :3
I personally go by the rule "a gentleman offers to buy you dinner, an asshole insists"Every time, but every f*cking time a guy start flirting with me, I think he just wants sex. Generally, that's my opinion about every man.
Even when he's not flirting with you he want's sex. At least the flirting guy had the nerve to be forward. It is an admirable trait to some. This is how men are programmed, if women were like men we would breed like fruit flies.Every time, but every f*cking time a guy start flirting with me, I think he just wants sex. Generally, that's my opinion about every man.
That they do. I guess a lot of it is fear of rejection, and being really sensitive to what the people they care about think of them; yeah, they also are very good at reading people in my experience. The one I know let me read a paper he wrote; I was surprised at how well he understood the people he was writing about at such a deep level, but if they have a hard time reading someone, it can be kind of difficult for them to open up I guess, because of being unsure of how that person feels. That's my experience at least.haha...I feel like they think a lot but they don't say much about what they are really feeling,,,,but I am the same way so nothing gets said xD
But anyway. you guys are still cool
I'm just so used to adapting to other people....and here comes along someone who I can't really do that with because they are more "aware" or something...haha
running the risk that I might sound kinda daft, what makes this thread like high school?Eesh .. this thread is like High School all over again
*facepalm*