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Feel free to make fun of my question. This is the first place I want to ask this question, judging by the people in this website so far.


I feel as if I know what true love really is. It almost feels as if it is embedded into my heart.
I have felt so far that love is when I truly care and cater for others. I love my family and I will help those that I care about the most. That is why I am currently attending Medical school. My Mother personally told me to become a stronger person, so that when I grow up, I can help those who need it.

I just wonder if people feel the same way, and have such a (weird) high standard for what love is.
I can somewhat confirm this from my Father and Grandfather. He was strict in his way of living (supporting my Family including relatives and other clanspeople) and I see that he is truly happy helping others.

I have no desire to have any romantic relationship. I even see masturbating as a way of taking away any sort of libido I have. I have such a weird moral view, compared to other people. Is this me going insane? Am I still insanely naive? Am I just living in a delusion? Are there people like me? I would love to see their view.

(wow this kind of feels like I wrote some anime script. Probably would have never noticed it if I stayed a fob.)
 

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Like damn. I had a really healthy childhood. I had excellent parents that showed me how to live life, and I saw no contradictions from the way they lived. I was loved like no other. Now I'm here drunk af writing this shit.
 

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um.. ah..

i dont know what to say.
 
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Are you asking if other people are asexual and/or aromantic, experiencing platonic and familial love without ever experiencing a desire to pair-bond? If so, yes, some people are. Just Google them. :)
 
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Also, now that I am sober, I realized I wrote clanspeople which is a really weird word. I am from Chun-an and my last name is Jun. A prominent figure from my family is Jeon Bong Jun.
 

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Ah. So that's the word. It's kind of weird because asexual means you reproduce by yourself. But I guess it makes sense.
It simply means you don't wanna have sex with anyone.

And if you also don't want a romantic relationship with anyone, then you are also aromantic.

And you are not alone. You are simply part of a minority, but not alone in this.
 
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