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I feel attracted to my boss and I don't want to. Simply because I have no desire or interest to develop my attraction into something more and I want to keep our relationship only on a professional level (I don't even know if he is married, in relationship etc.).
I feel very uncomfortable about my attraction to him and I'm afraid that some of my colleague will realize it.
The boss is very intelligent and optimistic person and he also makes witty jokes. He is very open, friendly and trustworthy with people. These personal characteristic make me feel very good and in ease around him, so I'm also more open when I talk to him, I make jokes etc. - and this not typical for me, because I'm quite introverted person, so not many people know my warm, open, friendly side. And I honestly don't feel in ease with most of the people.
I'm afraid that if someone will realize how my "energy" changes around my boss, he/she will think something...
I know there is probably thousands and thousands cases of women feeling attracted to their bosses, but I would like to know, if there are some psychological "tricks" how to deal with that attraction?
I feel very uncomfortable about my attraction to him and I'm afraid that some of my colleague will realize it.
The boss is very intelligent and optimistic person and he also makes witty jokes. He is very open, friendly and trustworthy with people. These personal characteristic make me feel very good and in ease around him, so I'm also more open when I talk to him, I make jokes etc. - and this not typical for me, because I'm quite introverted person, so not many people know my warm, open, friendly side. And I honestly don't feel in ease with most of the people.
I'm afraid that if someone will realize how my "energy" changes around my boss, he/she will think something...
I know there is probably thousands and thousands cases of women feeling attracted to their bosses, but I would like to know, if there are some psychological "tricks" how to deal with that attraction?