We chatted all the time in school by passing notes,and on the computer, and that seemed to be okay. But to be honest they were tough times, and I was being bullied at the time. So now that we meet up together outside of school and he wants..well you know.. does that mean that he actually likes me, or is he only, and has he only, been talking to me for a dare or bet or something? Honestly I feel paranoid for saying this, but I read a post saying alot of things about peeps who got bullied, and this seems totally out of character for anyone from school to be joined to me by choice.lol I know weird huh? After all this time I'm still being influenced by things that happened years ago.
Is it an enfp thing to not move on? Am I just seeing the old ghosts again, or is this one of those-gut instinct, woman's intuition, waking up and smelling the coffee for what it really is moments. He would certainly get a laugh out of his old school friends if he were to go about saying he'd slept with me. I won't take the risk that someone could have power over me in that way.
Or could it be one of those movie moments, you know, where she takes the glasses off and she's sexy suddenly *puke* movies have no bearing on the real world, esp. ones that portray teen happy endings..
So the debate rages on
slightly emo Chrissy:laughing:
Is it an enfp thing to not move on? Am I just seeing the old ghosts again, or is this one of those-gut instinct, woman's intuition, waking up and smelling the coffee for what it really is moments. He would certainly get a laugh out of his old school friends if he were to go about saying he'd slept with me. I won't take the risk that someone could have power over me in that way.
Or could it be one of those movie moments, you know, where she takes the glasses off and she's sexy suddenly *puke* movies have no bearing on the real world, esp. ones that portray teen happy endings..
So the debate rages on
slightly emo Chrissy:laughing: