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My intuition really says that my first love is an INFJ, and thus as a tribute/testimony to him, I start this thread :tongue:

When I was with my first love, honestly, he was one of the most pure hearted, kindest, most patient, most understanding, most tolerant men you could ever find. He was quiet, reserved, a bit anti social but nevertheless dreamy and his heart was the most amazing gem in this universe. Too bad, he was often unappreciated, overlooked and judged by people :sad:

It's just that certain circumstances happened and I also partly screwed up in how I treated him..Until this day, from time to time, I still wonder what could have been if we were married and had children now together :sad:

So embrace being INFJ's. I love you! If it hadn't been for him, I wouldn't have gone through two years of light, beauty and dreams, I love him!
 

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It's so hard to find someone like him.. My second ex is ISTJ, I care about him too, but well they're both different, lol..

My INFJ first love is so caring. Once I even threw food at him in public, and yet later he still forgave me and assured me that he loved me :sad:

The world is so dark, it needs more souls like INFJ's :sad: :sad: :sad:
 

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I'll expand on the previous post. All INFJ's feel the lure of the dark side (yes, I'm using a star wars analogy - fuck off!) and constantly have to evaluate and re-evaluate our lives and where we are at. For the most part, we have harmony, but sometimes we test the waters and try to be something else. I happen to think INFP's are actually the most warm hearted of them all...
 

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I'll expand on the previous post. All INFJ's feel the lure of the dark side (yes, I'm using a star wars analogy - fuck off!) and constantly have to evaluate and re-evaluate our lives and where we are at. For the most part, we have harmony, but sometimes we test the waters and try to be something else. I happen to think INFP's are actually the most warm hearted of them all...
The emperor does not share your optimistic appraisal of the situation.
 

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I have a thing for INFJ's too but it's mostly because they're naturally interested in your well being and not some cryptic b.s. - whatever that b.s. might be - so exchanging words with them and having them around is simply comfortable. Besides, their calm exterior is soothing; feels like I can melt and relax right infront of them.
 

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I have a thing for INFJ's too but it's mostly because they're naturally interested in your well being and not some cryptic b.s. - whatever that b.s. might be - so exchanging words with them and having them around is simply comfortable. Besides, their calm exterior is soothing; feels like I can melt and relax right infront of them.
It's magic!!



kidding :tongue:
 

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Yes my first love would fantasize being a hero, and being my hero :blushed:

I remember when I texted him and asked,''so do you like me or your former crush better?'' (this was during our initial stages of a relationship developing, not entirely serious yet)
He got worried and started texting me,''why do you ask like that? You should know that I love only you.'' I wasn't insecure at that time, I was just curious, but it warmed my heart, the way he was.

And at times when I punched him, he would just smile at me.

That sounds INFJ right? Siiigh.

Oh , love, if there ever was someone like you.
 

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I have a thing for INFJ's too but it's mostly because they're naturally interested in your well being and not some cryptic b.s. - whatever that b.s. might be - so exchanging words with them and having them around is simply comfortable. Besides, their calm exterior is soothing; feels like I can melt and relax right infront of them.
I enjoy the company to INFP's greatly as well. But I still have to wonder from time to time if they are just being friendly to get something in return from me. Perhaps that's just my 6w5 part of my psyche though.
 

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Yes my first love would fantasize being a hero, and being my hero :blushed:

I remember when I texted him and asked,''so do you like me or your former crush better?'' (this was during our initial stages of a relationship developing, not entirely serious yet)
He got worried and started texting me,''why do you ask like that? You should know that I love only you.'' I wasn't insecure at that time, I was just curious, but it warmed my heart, the way he was.

And at times when I punched him, he would just smile at me.

That sounds INFJ right? Siiigh.

Oh , love, if there ever was someone like you.
hey Izzie, dont get yourself down, we're just as rare, he'd have to go a pretty long way to find someone as great as you^^ out of interest, did you ask him out or did he ask you out?
 

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hey Izzie, dont get yourself down, we're just as rare, he'd have to go a pretty long way to find someone as great as you^^ out of interest, did you ask him out or did he ask you out?
In the far past? Hmm..it was cute. It was through texting.

I think I asked him,'' do you like me?'' He said yes, but I thought it was more of just a simple attraction thing.

For one week, we couldn't stop texting each other. Then I was like,''hey you're just joking around all this time right. Do you really like me?''

He said later,'' Don't tell me you never knew how I really feel about you'' :blushed:

Sometime during that time, on the phone I had asked him,''Do you miss me'' in a half joking way. And he was like,''err...err..'' he couldn't say it on the phone. At first I thought,''okay I was wrong, he's not that into me.'' So I said,''Nevermind'' then hung up. Only to get a text later,''I do miss you, I'm just shy, I miss you so much'' :crazy:

Much much much later I just cut the crap and asked him through text,''Will you be my boyfriend?'' :crazy::crazy:
 
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