Not a particularly nice thing to do, I realise...
I'll give you the back story, this lady (I'd never met) went on a date with, lets call him chris, he asked her out afterwards and she said no. A month later I went on a date with him having been his friend for a few years, a date that turned into a 3 and a half year relationship!
A year in, we went to a friends birthday party, she was there and we met - I introduced myself and was with chris at the time - she seemed lovely. 10 minutes later she took him to one side and told him seeing him with a girl made her "want him" and if he wanted some fun he should call her.
One year later chris went to a leaving party for a friend, I was working and couldn't come, but she was there. Two weeks later several hundered pictures of her sitting on his lap, cuddling him - him looking decidedly awkward - even a video of him pushing her away, appeared on facebook.
A month after that I bumped into her, and I was nice but said that the pictures had bothered me a bit, she said sorry. She then emailed him that evening saying that she "needed to see him" ,she wanted to go out with him now, she only goes for attached men cause it's her "thing" and a lot of um..sexy stuff. Which he showed me.
She continued to send him emails, and texts.. He started texting back.
A little while ago, he met up with her and went on a date - whilst we were together. They kissed. When I found out, I dumped him.
He had sex with her, said it was "disapointing" and a month after we broke up, and ever since - has been trying to get back together. (It's not gonna happen btw)
She boasted to a mutual friend that she had "got him" and has now moved on to the next whateveer.. - this lady has slept with over 50 men, I'm sure plenty had girlfriends.
I have to go to a party in a few days and I have a feeling she'll be there :/ I feel like she thoroughly deserves a good telling off, but I have no idea what to say...if anything....
anyone any suggestions? Thank you
*Also, I know that the relationship problems were entirely my ex's fault - that's why I'm not with him! but she was so persistent for such a long time, and makes a big point of going for attached guys that I feel pretty annoyed at her! :S
I'll give you the back story, this lady (I'd never met) went on a date with, lets call him chris, he asked her out afterwards and she said no. A month later I went on a date with him having been his friend for a few years, a date that turned into a 3 and a half year relationship!
A year in, we went to a friends birthday party, she was there and we met - I introduced myself and was with chris at the time - she seemed lovely. 10 minutes later she took him to one side and told him seeing him with a girl made her "want him" and if he wanted some fun he should call her.
One year later chris went to a leaving party for a friend, I was working and couldn't come, but she was there. Two weeks later several hundered pictures of her sitting on his lap, cuddling him - him looking decidedly awkward - even a video of him pushing her away, appeared on facebook.
A month after that I bumped into her, and I was nice but said that the pictures had bothered me a bit, she said sorry. She then emailed him that evening saying that she "needed to see him" ,she wanted to go out with him now, she only goes for attached men cause it's her "thing" and a lot of um..sexy stuff. Which he showed me.
She continued to send him emails, and texts.. He started texting back.
A little while ago, he met up with her and went on a date - whilst we were together. They kissed. When I found out, I dumped him.
He had sex with her, said it was "disapointing" and a month after we broke up, and ever since - has been trying to get back together. (It's not gonna happen btw)
She boasted to a mutual friend that she had "got him" and has now moved on to the next whateveer.. - this lady has slept with over 50 men, I'm sure plenty had girlfriends.
I have to go to a party in a few days and I have a feeling she'll be there :/ I feel like she thoroughly deserves a good telling off, but I have no idea what to say...if anything....
anyone any suggestions? Thank you
*Also, I know that the relationship problems were entirely my ex's fault - that's why I'm not with him! but she was so persistent for such a long time, and makes a big point of going for attached guys that I feel pretty annoyed at her! :S