I like a very good looking ENFJ who is pretty much one of the most elligible bacholors in town. I just know that I am at least, maybe just a LITTLE different, than all the others. I am not that naive. We acknowledged our attraction and things are intense. He is my boss, so it is controversial. One of our co-workers was around in the same room while we were cuddling. I, by the way, know of no other personality type that can GET AWAY with cuddling w almost EVERYONE as much as you guys can. Anyway, in front of the coworker, he asked if "I had a crush on him or at least just a little." My jaw dropped open and I told him that he embaressed me the moment t coworker left. He said he was "just joking." I have a HUGE crush on him and I need to know what to do about it and what the hell did that mean? I was too caught off guard to answer. Should I tell him? Is that the ENFJ way of having "the talk" or could it have been a craving for ego stroking? which this guy can"t get enough of. Please please help and thanks so much in advance.