Oh you 4w5's =D I love riddles.I'll say something and then someone thinks I mean something else. I think people do this on purpose because if you promote that feeling that you understand them then lonely people will start to cling to them individually and not the entire classroom.
Yes... the challenge of relationships is adjusting to each person's insecurities and generating a bridge which puts both parties at ease and that is how friendships happen. Its called trust. And its also the same reason that trust can be broken. Riddles galore.