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I've been talking to this girl online for about 2 months now, and i thought she may have liked me for a while (when i said "like" i mean romantically) but now it is pretty obvious she doesnt. Even though i dont like her, i still have this feeling as thought i want her to like me and would be jealous of whoever she likes. Have any of you eve felt this way about someone? She's an ENFJ by the way
 

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I've been talking to this girl online for about 2 months now, and i thought she may have liked me for a while (when i said "like" i mean romantically) but now it is pretty obvious she doesnt. Even though i dont like her, i still have this feeling as thought i want her to like me and would be jealous of whoever she likes. Have any of you eve felt this way about someone? She's an ENFJ by the way
wgvlvcrazy: Just ask her out and meet up if this is possible and then read her body language. See what it will tell you. Body language is hard to lie and always I can pick up a lot of dead giveaway hints.
Good Luck!
 

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Maybe you're insecure and want someone to love you period, so your jealousy is more generalized than directed at her lack of romantic love for you?
 

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You can't really 'make' someone like you romantically. The best you can do is hang around for a good moment, but really your time is better spent looking for more >ahem< fertile fields.
 

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I've been talking to this girl online for about 2 months now, and i thought she may have liked me for a while (when i said "like" i mean romantically) but now it is pretty obvious she doesnt. Even though i dont like her, i still have this feeling as thought i want her to like me and would be jealous of whoever she likes. Have any of you eve felt this way about someone? She's an ENFJ by the way
You took too long and she realized that you two don't have any connection. Bad luck.

Try another girl.
 

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Haha i like your responses guys, and i dont really feel like this anymore, i know who i like and its not her, we are just friends now. I just wanted to see what you guys thought of the whole situation, and mostly if you have ever felt like this.
 

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Isn't this quite common?

You're not interested in someone until they've lost their interest in you. Quite simple actually. You're used to receiving attention from someone and when they start treating you just like everybody else, you wonder what went wrong thus your interest is sparked and when they find someone else, you're jealous 'cause you used to be the subject of that affection and the other person stole "your" spot.
 
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