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Hello, I'm an INFP visiting this realm of ENTP in search of advice and insight...
Here's the story:
There's this guy I've known for a couple years who I'm pretty sure is an ENTP - we go to school together and have same major. It's an acquaintance level relationship. I'd never EVER considered him as a romantic option. Never crossed my mind once.
So, the other day, we were in play rehearsal and all he did was sit near me and poke my shoe and made a comment about it and then suddenly... FEELINGS!!!
Out of nowhere I got a crush on him. I don't even know what happened. It's like my mind went without me... WHY!!?? :frustrating:
So, now, all I want is to hold his hand and lean on his shoulder and hug him. He's nearly a foot taller than me and bigger. He's got a booming voice and he sings a low baritone. I just feel like I would feel so safe with him. :kitteh:
I keep trying to lock eyes and place myself near him to kind of give him a hint of my feelings. Sometimes he'll hold the eye contact for a heartbeat longer than normal... but I sometimes get the sense that he's ignoring me...???
During our play, another girl (who's not single), he, and I are on one side of backstage and he'll usually talk to her and I just stand there and listen. And tonight, our whole cast was out for dinner and he was seated next to me but I got a weird, awkward vibe from him and then he went and joined his friends...
Do you guys know what's going on here? Do I need a different approach? Do I have a chance?
Just so you know - I kinda hate myself right now cause every crush I've ever had has been one-sided and now I want to punch myself in the face.
Help me ENTPs, you're my only hope!
Here's the story:
There's this guy I've known for a couple years who I'm pretty sure is an ENTP - we go to school together and have same major. It's an acquaintance level relationship. I'd never EVER considered him as a romantic option. Never crossed my mind once.
So, the other day, we were in play rehearsal and all he did was sit near me and poke my shoe and made a comment about it and then suddenly... FEELINGS!!!
So, now, all I want is to hold his hand and lean on his shoulder and hug him. He's nearly a foot taller than me and bigger. He's got a booming voice and he sings a low baritone. I just feel like I would feel so safe with him. :kitteh:
I keep trying to lock eyes and place myself near him to kind of give him a hint of my feelings. Sometimes he'll hold the eye contact for a heartbeat longer than normal... but I sometimes get the sense that he's ignoring me...???
During our play, another girl (who's not single), he, and I are on one side of backstage and he'll usually talk to her and I just stand there and listen. And tonight, our whole cast was out for dinner and he was seated next to me but I got a weird, awkward vibe from him and then he went and joined his friends...
Do you guys know what's going on here? Do I need a different approach? Do I have a chance?
Just so you know - I kinda hate myself right now cause every crush I've ever had has been one-sided and now I want to punch myself in the face.
Help me ENTPs, you're my only hope!