Be fair to yourself, and to others. Dating chicks that chase after you and you don't see it going far? Why bother carrying on? I know, I get it. I did the same shit when I was younger. The risk and rejection are easier to handle when you're in the position of not caring as much. Hell, it's even nice to have a lil bit of intimacy, physical contact, and someone who appreciates you. In some ways that may be all you need and not even realize it. Could be a case of the grass being greener on the other side of the fence. Either way I just encourage you to consider your actions a little bit more in the future.
As far as the women you like not wanting to be with you when you feel it. Two words: fuck it. Seriously, rejection is not that bad at all. It saves you a lot of trouble in the future of trying to raise some kind of interest that isn't there. At the very least you know where you stand with somebody. That doesn't exactly give you a permit to act like a total ********* in the the future, but it is a different perspective on situations. There are billions of fish in the sea, live your life on your terms and you'll eventually get to where you need to be.
Then again I've been single for years now, and still hesitant about leaping on either side of the fence in regards to relationships and singledom. The caveat is that even with some drama and bumps in the life road, I'm pretty content/happy overall. Don't settle for less than what you want, and learn/act on all that is necessary to get there.
As far as the women you like not wanting to be with you when you feel it. Two words: fuck it. Seriously, rejection is not that bad at all. It saves you a lot of trouble in the future of trying to raise some kind of interest that isn't there. At the very least you know where you stand with somebody. That doesn't exactly give you a permit to act like a total ********* in the the future, but it is a different perspective on situations. There are billions of fish in the sea, live your life on your terms and you'll eventually get to where you need to be.
Then again I've been single for years now, and still hesitant about leaping on either side of the fence in regards to relationships and singledom. The caveat is that even with some drama and bumps in the life road, I'm pretty content/happy overall. Don't settle for less than what you want, and learn/act on all that is necessary to get there.
