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Hay! i ask that question different types to see posible reactions, i will really appriciate if you would share too, i need some advice on that issue, and dont see it as a weaknes to ask as everyone of us has unanswered questions:

-do people every ignore you? what do you do if when you r saying sdomething and person doesnt want to listen, they simply walk off, or put earphones in, or show by their body language that youve gatta stop (hand gesture etc) but keep smiling?

- what ebout if you are correcting someones action, which you think is important and this person has a go at you saying "u are lately speaking more than you should you know", then i reply of course but this person throughts some disrespect at me , like interupts my reply, doesnt let me finish my sentence by saying something like "stop, we finished" with irritated voice, as in what r u making noise here, or even worse shut the doar or walk off, as if u r not important..... isnt it disrespectful to treat someone like that? what you would do, how you would respond in that case? just walk off/do what they tell (shut up), see they leaving the room or ignoring or dismising you but keep talking at them?

-what if you are correcting someone about their action which was clearly wrong, and not a small deal at all, say like that:
- Megan
- yes, she stops for a sec and looks at you
- this morning u were suposed to stay in the canteen, but you leaft and..
- no w thought bla bla bla...dont make a big deal out of it and walks of as she says that

do i need to shout to her back?
would you walk after her, chaising?
what about this coment about "big deal"? it is avery popular coment instead of corecting it or answering for it if people feel that they r wrong they start blaming u as if u r "making a big deal" "always about everything" "always have problems" and its nothing to do with you! its just them trying to make u look bad...but is so anoying!

how do you deal with this sort of situations? do u see what I mean?
 

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Well I would tell them off if they disrespected me. I'd be all like, "Hey be polite because thats so rude of you to ignore me like that!" People actually ignore me sometimes. I'm kinda short and little and other people think that I just am nothing but being in my place, I've learned to overcome them and stand up for myself.:laughing:
 

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I find people rarely disregard completely what I have to say. I only speak when I have something to say, choose my words carefully, and get right to the point.

I rarely find it necessary to correct people's actions, but when I do, it is really with their interest in mind. Once, for instance, I told a friend in the gym to not bend her back while doing dead lift. She got defensive so I pointed out to her I had nothing to gain by having her do it one way or the other and walked away. I was concerned for her, but if she really wants to shoot her back she can be my guest.
 

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If they ignore me, i'll stop, leave them be and carry on with something else. if it's that clear that they don't want to listen, then so be it.

When i've corrected people on occasion, i simply state what should have been done and leave it there - i refuse to get into arguments about anything, since it serves no purpose.
 

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I get really pissed off, tell them to go fuck themselves and get on with my day - I don't waste time on people like that.
 
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