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Hay! i ask that question different types to see posible reactions, i will really appriciate if you would share too, i need some advice on that issue, and dont see it as a weaknes to ask as everyone of us has unanswered questions:

-do people every ignore you? what do you do if when you r saying sdomething and person doesnt want to listen, they simply walk off, or put earphones in, or show by their body language that youve gatta stop (hand gesture etc) but keep smiling?

- what ebout if you are correcting someones action, which you think is important and this person has a go at you saying "u are lately speaking more than you should you know", then i reply of course but this person throughts some disrespect at me , like interupts my reply, doesnt let me finish my sentence by saying something like "stop, we finished" with irritated voice, as in what r u making noise here, or even worse shut the doar or walk off, as if u r not important..... isnt it disrespectful to treat someone like that? what you would do, how you would respond in that case? just walk off/do what they tell (shut up), see they leaving the room or ignoring or dismising you but keep talking at them?

-what if you are correcting someone about their action which was clearly wrong, and not a small deal at all, say like that:
- Megan
- yes, she stops for a sec and looks at you
- this morning u were suposed to stay in the canteen, but you leaft and..
- no w thought bla bla bla...dont make a big deal out of it and walks of as she says that

do i need to shout to her back?
would you walk after her, chaising?
what about this coment about "big deal"? it is avery popular coment instead of corecting it or answering for it if people feel that they r wrong they start blaming u as if u r "making a big deal" "always about everything" "always have problems" and its nothing to do with you! its just them trying to make u look bad...but is so anoying!

how do you deal with this sort of situations? do u see what I mean?
 

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I have never been in a situation where someone has, in full seriousness, ignored me.
 

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I don't make it a habit, helping people out of their self dug holes/ their own stupidity. I only advise/ help/ try to improve those I perceive as would/ can take the advice and would appreciate them. If needed, reprimand those who clearly bother other people, and in this case there'll be obvious public support so they can't just ignore it.

I honestly just ignore/ leave the rest be, I'm not their babysitter.
 
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