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...or else I'm pretty sure he's an ENFP.
Anyway, it all started when I met him well over a year ago in class. At first I thought he was really nice, funny, and charming (and kind of attractive). But after a short while, there was something about him that just kept REALLY annoying me. It was difficult for me to comprehend at first, but I eventually started to figure things out. Sometimes I was annoyed with him because it seemed like he didn't take anything seriously, other times I felt like he didn't really care about me as a friend, this was attributed to his loud, exuberant, and spontaneous nature. He also had weird opinions/perceptions about things that really peeved me and after awhile I started seeing him as daft, stupid, inconsiderate, arrogant, and oblivious. He ALWAYS had to be the center of his attention.
The next school year I decided to try talking to him again, because y'know, I still kind of missed him. I quickly noticed myself starting to get irritated with him again during homecoming week(each class in my school does a skit during that week); he brought a megaphone and KEPT yelling stupid and obnoxious things during the other class’s skits when no one was talking. I wanted to take that megaphone and shove it down his throat. Then I asked if he was going to this school dance so I could hang out with him. He lied to me and said "no" even though he was. This really hurt me, because there weren't a lot of other people I knew who were going and it made me feel really rejected and ostracized. At the dance I was hanging out with one of my other friends who didn't really have a group to hang with either. He has a tendency to wander a lot so I just followed him. It was dark and the music was really loud so I accidently stumbled onto the ENFP’s social circle. The ENFP turns around, sees both of us and pulls aside the ONLY friend I have to hang out with them while completely ignoring me, leaving me alone and feeling like complete loser. Later that night I found a group of friends that I could hang out with, so things turned out alright after all, but I was still hurt. Then the ENFP takes this huge object and waves it over my friends’ heads to get their attention for some strange, annoying reason. I was so angry.
2 months later after ignoring and lying to me, he magically decides that he wants to talk to me again. At that point I was fed up with his bullshit and wasn't going to be the one to approach him this time; I felt like a tool. So what does he do? Instead of just saying "hi" to me like a NORMAL person he purposely walks past me and takes off his shirt hoping I'll notice him. UGH! That's all I can say. Other times he'll just stand in my line of vision hoping I'll approach him again. Afterwards he went and complained to his stupid friends about how he doesn't "get" why I'm not talking to him anymore.
I STILL do kind of miss him, but at the same time he just infuriates me. I don't know how I should go about this.
Anyway, it all started when I met him well over a year ago in class. At first I thought he was really nice, funny, and charming (and kind of attractive). But after a short while, there was something about him that just kept REALLY annoying me. It was difficult for me to comprehend at first, but I eventually started to figure things out. Sometimes I was annoyed with him because it seemed like he didn't take anything seriously, other times I felt like he didn't really care about me as a friend, this was attributed to his loud, exuberant, and spontaneous nature. He also had weird opinions/perceptions about things that really peeved me and after awhile I started seeing him as daft, stupid, inconsiderate, arrogant, and oblivious. He ALWAYS had to be the center of his attention.
The next school year I decided to try talking to him again, because y'know, I still kind of missed him. I quickly noticed myself starting to get irritated with him again during homecoming week(each class in my school does a skit during that week); he brought a megaphone and KEPT yelling stupid and obnoxious things during the other class’s skits when no one was talking. I wanted to take that megaphone and shove it down his throat. Then I asked if he was going to this school dance so I could hang out with him. He lied to me and said "no" even though he was. This really hurt me, because there weren't a lot of other people I knew who were going and it made me feel really rejected and ostracized. At the dance I was hanging out with one of my other friends who didn't really have a group to hang with either. He has a tendency to wander a lot so I just followed him. It was dark and the music was really loud so I accidently stumbled onto the ENFP’s social circle. The ENFP turns around, sees both of us and pulls aside the ONLY friend I have to hang out with them while completely ignoring me, leaving me alone and feeling like complete loser. Later that night I found a group of friends that I could hang out with, so things turned out alright after all, but I was still hurt. Then the ENFP takes this huge object and waves it over my friends’ heads to get their attention for some strange, annoying reason. I was so angry.
2 months later after ignoring and lying to me, he magically decides that he wants to talk to me again. At that point I was fed up with his bullshit and wasn't going to be the one to approach him this time; I felt like a tool. So what does he do? Instead of just saying "hi" to me like a NORMAL person he purposely walks past me and takes off his shirt hoping I'll notice him. UGH! That's all I can say. Other times he'll just stand in my line of vision hoping I'll approach him again. Afterwards he went and complained to his stupid friends about how he doesn't "get" why I'm not talking to him anymore.
I STILL do kind of miss him, but at the same time he just infuriates me. I don't know how I should go about this.